Category: sex coach

Isabella Dollish – 12.2024 w/ Nicholas Tanek

“Spank it out.”

Isabella Dollish from Intrinsic Kink Inc. is helping to heal the world through the kink community. Worldwide but centered in Colorado, Intrinsic Kink Inc. is a non-profit organization that aims to safely and respectfully educate kinksters. We discuss The Dollhouse, how CONSENT is sexy, spanking parties, sissification, being a switch, abuse vs domination, etiquette, the best pillows on the planet, how sadism equals ecstasy,  and what a porcupenicus is.

“Cuddles or hugs or beatings.”

 

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Lady Sublime 12.2024 w/ Nicholas Tanek

“Any butt is spankable.”

Lady Sublime is a Dominatrix from Texas who recently graduated from The Dominatrix Academy. Your GrandSmother and I talk about our love of SPANKING and being a SPANKO, spanking parties, domination vs. topping, cute aggression, post-nut clarity, being a pleasure sadist, Polyfidelity, Mommy Domme vs. Naughty Auntie, and how to use the pudendal nerve to make sissies cum in chastity from spanking. She also shows us her bag of impact play toys.

“Post-nut clarity is a b!tch.”

 

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YKF Author Circle w/ Carli De Ville, Melissa Todd, Dirk Hooper, & Nicholas Tanek

Nicholas Tanek and his author friends from the YKF podcast discuss writing in the kink/BDSM community, editing, publishing, marketing, and the legacy of their books. Tonight’s guests include Carli De Ville, Melissa Todd, & Dirk Hooper.

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Miss Isobel Devi – 8.2024 w/ Nicholas Tanek

“We can punish ourselves way worse than other people can.”

Miss Isobel Devi returns to talk about The Order of Indomitus, high protocol 24/7 BDSM slavery roleplay, PVC, cosplay, latex, sissy weekends, prison parties, making subs gather panties in the wilderness, and forced sleep deprivation.

“If you leave it in the closet, it will degrade over time.”

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Mistress Natasha – 8.2024 w/ Nicholas Tanek

“Holes… That’s all I can think about.”

Mistress Natasha is the Whisperer of holes, Taker of fluids in Phoenix, AZ. We discuss being a protege of Damiana Chi PhD, endless play with her leather pet, slapping the semen out of somebody, zippered crotches, and loving the glorious eruption of cum.

“Kink helps metabolize trauma.”

 

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JP of Studio 58 – 8.2024 w/ Nicholas Tanek

“You need to know your sub.”

When JP is not beating the balls of chubby young men, the legendary creator of Studio 58 is throwing events like Naughty Noel & Naughty Knowledge. We discuss the complexities of throwing a four-day kink conference & hotel takeover, handcrafting a whipping post, straight jackets, teaching a CBT class, and keeping the fire burning while getting older in the kink community.

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Amy Taylor – 7.2024 w/ Nicholas Tanek

“I must be in the mood for an orgy.”

Amy Taylor is an American model (GQ, Elle) and a sex advocate/media personality. We talk about the horrors of content pimps, her life as a pilot, the mile-high club, staying sexually expressive during dire political times, latex modeling, and her adventures in Yosemite.

“I want both holes filled while a guy goes down on me.”

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Lyuba Venable – 7.2024 w/ Nicholas Tanek

“Every person has a core desire.”

Lyuba Venable came from Ukraine to America and then, went from Software Engineer to Somatica intimacy coach. In the episode, she talks about sexual differences between Ukraine & United States, helping closet sissies, women in loveless marriages, taboo rape play, and ice cream sex. We also talk about her fantasy of being spit-roasted and being able to fly to the tallest building to have sex on it.

“I would love to be turned on by roses, but I’m not.”

“When we worship, a bit of healing happens.”

“Every man wants to be pegged really good by their partner.”

“Everything I coach, I live.”

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YKF SUNDAY SESSIONS 7.7.2024 – How Kinky People See Vanilla People From Their Past

You’re a KINKY person. What do you do when you meet vanilla people from your past? What do you say? What do you want to say but never do?

Nicco Noire, Nicholas Tanek, and Naughty Giselle T discuss meeting with vanilla people from their past as they look through Bustle’s “9 Weird Inventions People Actually Use In Bed” article.

 

Bustle’s “9 Weird Inventions People Actually Use In Bed”