YKF GROWL: A new YKF series
“We train boys.”
The Lady Lioness and Nicholas Tanek welcome Velvet Contessa (ClubFemNJ/Goddess House) and Mistress Gabrielle (2 Kinky Women Podcast) for a lively discussion on elegant Femdom culture, exploring Goddess House events, the grace and symbolism of formal tea parties, Spanksgiving celebrations, training submissive boys, the use of shock collars, consensual kidnapping scenarios, and the delights of sissy maid service.
“Etiquette means being kind to others.”
“Beating people burns calories.”
Mistress June & CashVamp talk Pandemonium (aka, the Capital of Hell), an immersive BDSM play party in Philadelphia. We also discuss the 4 BDSM theme rooms, kinky speed dating, variants of pain play, drag tail whips, two-way mirrors, TRE (Trauma Release Exercises), and how OCPD makes Mistress June a chronic kink overworker.
“Be proud of your kinks.”
Continue reading PANDEMONIUM – Mistress June & CashVamp – 11.2025
“You don’t know what you don’t know.”
Mistress Cyan joins YKF to discuss DomCon NOLA 2025. The founder of DomCon and Sanctuary Studios LAX, Mistress Cyan, discusses New Orleans, the kinky 2nd Line parade, her love of impact play, liquid nitrogen play, the importance of community in the streets of New Orleans, and how the S.W.O.T. method helps in kink.
“There is a market for everyone out there.”
“Kink is a constant reminder of how deeply connected we are.”
Emily Letts, MSW MPH, is a Therapeutic Kink Practitioner based in Boulder, CO. We discuss Existential Kink, shame vs. guilt, and how attraction + obstacle = desire.
“My mission is to normalize kink.”
Continue reading Emily Letts, MSW MPH – (Therapeutic Kink Practitioner) – 10.2025
“Penises are plentiful and cheap. Pussies are treasure troves.”
Kendra Holliday is a sex-positive activist and co-Founder of Sex Positive St. Louis. She is known for her surrogate partner therapy, sex activism, writing, fetish events, embracing the naked body, shaving her head, hairy armpits, sissy tea parties, and hiring a sex worker for her dad.
“I refuse to give up my radiance.”
“Mix some Jackson Pollock with your own blood, and come see me.”
Michelle Lacy of Siren House returns to enlighten us about her executive-level Femdom events that include servant training, heavy captivity, and bondage. We discuss her contributions to the kink community, hotel staff role play, scrubbing blood out of a marble floor, and epic golden showers.
“The room is filled with sick stuff, and I’m a sick person.”
“I want to roast marshmallows on him.”
Sir Aiden Charming (aka “The Fire Guy”) is a professional switch based in Phoenix, Arizona. We discuss safe fire play, the fluidity of being a switch, non-verbal safewords, fire massage, an hour of paddles, Tom Six’s “The Onania Club,” and making a human campfire.
“Being a switch means fluidity.”
Continue reading Sir Aiden Charming (aka “The Fire Guy”) – 8.2025
“A nibble on a chin was too kinky for him.”
Goddess Giselle, Miztress Claudia, & Anna Valentina join YKF to answer what happens when sex workers and kinky clients have vanilla partners.
“Don’t assume what you don’t know. Don’t judge.”
“The connection of two souls is the most powerful thing to exist.”
Sondra Bailey is a Shamanic Practitioner and Reiki Master. We discuss how to use Reiki to achieve intense orgasms. We also discuss Portal closing and the removal of demonic entities. As Hevajra (dietry of sex) watches over YKF, Sondra tells who Nicholas Tanek was in his past life.
“Be mindful of where the flame is.”
Director Jezebelle from K!nkify talks “Melting Point,” her candle wax play tutorial/class. We discuss why soy candles work best, the symbolism of dripping wax, pickling people, tarps, wax on buttcheeks, candle wax on melanated skin, candle wax mishaps, candle wax on the clitoris, aftercare, and how to clean up.
“People underestimate candles.”
