Category: sex coach

YKF CHAT: Sex Ed With Tim (Tim Lagman) – 3.2024 w/ Nicholas Tanek

“There are some really tight holes out there.”

Tim Lagman (host of Sex Ed with Tim podcast) is a sex therapist and a semi-retired male escort. We discuss having thousands of lovers, why escorts should not charge per orgasm,  the film “Good Luck To You Leo Grande,” using grapes for scat play, and New York City gays vs. Los Angeles gays.

“People who embrace their sluttiness are more on top of their health than the average person.”

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YKF VIDEO: The Commandant – 2.2024 w/ Nicholas Tanek

“I’m a sadist, not an asshole.”

The Commandant, known for being KINKY GOOGLE, is a traveling kink educator and lifestyle Dominatrix from Texas. We talk about sissification vs. feminization, how kink saved our lives, a women-led queer-inclusive space, the sex life of physicists, wanting to run an ethical whorehouse, Depeche Mode for dungeons, the cum receptacle competition, and which Wu-Tang Clan song is best to flog to.

“Any hole’s the goal.”

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YKF CHAT: Jade Desires 2.2024 w/ Nicholas Tanek

“If you want to make my day, let me ruin your orgasm.”

Jade Desires returns to talk about the power of orgasm denial and control. We also discuss mindfuckery, first-time forced bi, kinky sex parties, foot parties, blue laws, and teaching men how to worship women.

“There are so many ways to bust balls. Why limit yourself?”

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YKF VIDEO: Mistress Holly GoLightly – 2.2024 w/ Nicholas Tanek

“I end up fisting half of them.”

Mistress Holly GoLightly returns to talk about domestic discipline, ABDL play, sissification, hypnosis, Bondassage, castration play, erotic humiliation, and spacing out while doing art.

“No one wants me to set them on fire for some reason.”

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YKF CHAT: Abby Haute – 2.2024 w/ Nicholas Tanek

“There are so many nuances to the smoking fetish.”

Abby Haute returns to talk about her smoking fetish videos, being a hotwife to her husband, the differences between being a cuckoldress vs. a hotwife, More Menthol 120’s, and her new cannabis strain.

“Cuckolding is a way for them to lose control.”

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YKF CHAT: Mistress Danielle (Denver, CO) – 1.2024 w/ Nicholas Tanek

“He was able to ejaculate just from me kicking him in the balls.”

Mistress Danielle from Denver sits down to talk with us about kinky couples, autism, crossdressers, pegging, ballbusting/CBT, chastity, and more. She also apologizes for her burps while she talks about diaper play.

“I like to empower my submissives… because they are shamed enough.”

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VIDEO CHAT: Ezra (Ask Ezra) -1.2024 w/ Nicholas Tanek

“I want my sex to hurt a little bit… so what?”

Sir Ezra of Ask Ezra returns to talk about his new book The Path Through. We discuss being a professional male Dom, poetry, romance, healing, grief, body degradation, Jack Kerouac, sexting, and oral sex with hot sauce.

“Be a good houseguest to your feelings.”

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Mischief Manor: Real Random Quotes

Conversations with kinky people inspire us. Since the opening night in 2022, I began collecting real random quotes that I overhear in passing while at Mischief Manor, my local BDSM kink dungeon run by the legendary Mistress Schari.  The rule of the game is that people must consent to contribute these quotes. Second, they are actual quotes that must be random, but in passing. The third rule is never to attribute a quote to a person. Part of the fun is remembering who said it (or who you think would have said it).

“I want weird people to meet other weird people.”

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The Pegging Panel: Ms. Genevieve & Anna Valentina w/ Nicholas Tanek – 10.2023

“Saturday night… I’m going to plow your ass.” – Anna Valentina

Anna Valentina (Bussy Boss) and Ms Genevieve (NOLA Domme) join forces to discuss PEGGING. We discussed preparation, strap-on sizes, pegging techniques, aftercare, and building the perfect strap-on.

“Their asshole almost pulled my dick off.” – Ms. Genevieve

NOTE: We had to broadcast in 2 parts due to the usual technical issues.

Part II

 

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VIDEO CHAT: Sera Miles (PEPlove) – 9.2023 w/ Nicholas Tanek

“People are going to have an experience of feeling secure while playing out the fetishes they are ashamed of.”

The legendary Sera Miles of PEPLove is retiring and all the ladies came together to say thank you to this magnificent woman. We also discuss phone sex, knife play, blood play, sissification, AI in sex work, and how kinky people must communicate. So, let’s talk!

“The first step to make everything better is decriminalization.”

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