VIDEO CHAT: Ezra (Ask Ezra) -1.2024 w/ Nicholas Tanek

“I want my sex to hurt a little bit… so what?”

Sir Ezra of Ask Ezra returns to talk about his new book The Path Through. We discuss being a professional male Dom, poetry, romance, healing, grief, body degradation, Jack Kerouac, sexting, and oral sex with hot sauce.

“Be a good houseguest to your feelings.”

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Mischief Manor: Real Random Quotes

Conversations with kinky people inspire us. Since the opening night in 2022, I began collecting real random quotes that I overhear in passing while at Mischief Manor, my local BDSM kink dungeon run by the legendary Mistress Schari.  The rule of the game is that people must consent to contribute these quotes. Second, they are actual quotes that must be random, but in passing. The third rule is never to attribute a quote to a person. Part of the fun is remembering who said it (or who you think would have said it).

“I want weird people to meet other weird people.”

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The Pegging Panel: Ms. Genevieve & Anna Valentina w/ Nicholas Tanek – 10.2023

“Saturday night… I’m going to plow your ass.” – Anna Valentina

Anna Valentina (Bussy Boss) and Ms Genevieve (NOLA Domme) join forces to discuss PEGGING. We discussed preparation, strap-on sizes, pegging techniques, aftercare, and building the perfect strap-on.

“Their asshole almost pulled my dick off.” – Ms. Genevieve

NOTE: We had to broadcast in 2 parts due to the usual technical issues.

Part II

 

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VIDEO CHAT: Sera Miles (PEPlove) – 9.2023 w/ Nicholas Tanek

“People are going to have an experience of feeling secure while playing out the fetishes they are ashamed of.”

The legendary Sera Miles of PEPLove is retiring and all the ladies came together to say thank you to this magnificent woman. We also discuss phone sex, knife play, blood play, sissification, AI in sex work, and how kinky people must communicate. So, let’s talk!

“The first step to make everything better is decriminalization.”

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VIDEO CHAT: Anna Valentina 8.2023 w/ Nicholas Tanek

“Every man should experience penetration and every woman should penetrate a man.”

The legendary Anna Valentina (“The Bussy Boss”) returns to discuss her personal pegging technique, teaching classes, chastity, latex vs. rubber, extreme bondage, popping balloons, and burying people alive in transparent coffins.

“There is always something new out there.”

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VIDEO CHAT: Carli de Ville (Naughtylicious) – 6.2023 w/ Nicholas Tanek

“I’m getting litty like a locked up useless clitty!”

Carli de Ville (Sexologist & Psychotherapist creating educational content on Sex/Kink/BDSM) is the author of NAUGHTYLICIOUS. We use the book/game to discuss kinky icebreakers for both swingers and couples.  We have a conversation to inspire other kinky conversations.

 

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A Safe, Sane, & Consensual Summer -6.2023 w/ Nicco Noire, Carli de Ville, Mistress Jennifer & Nicholas Tanek

Nicco Noire & Nicholas Tanek create The 12 Steps Of A Safe, Sane, & Consensual Summer with the help of Carli de Ville (Sexologist) & Mistress Jennifer (Houston, TX). We talk about the perils of alcohol, the beauty of lube, finding a neutral place, inflatable unicorns, rainbow dildos, whips, straight jackets, & more!

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VIDEO CHAT: Tina Koopersmith MD – 4.2023

“Eroticism is the secret sauce to wellness.”

Tina Koopersmith MD is a fertility doctor, relationship coach, and kink advocate. We discuss eroticism, the meaning of life, female empowerment, the beauty of the erotic mind, the breeding fetish, D/s relationships, and the power of kinky sexual expression.

“Frequent ejaculation is good. You have to get out all of the junk.”

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Ms. Texas & Miss Dustie – 4.2023 w/ Nicholas Tanek

“The one with the most orgasms wins.”

Ms. Texas and Miss Dustie are two Dominatrix friends in the Dallas, Texas area who teach BDSM classes and workshops. They discuss vibrator wrestling, CBT, chastity,  kneeling on uncooked rice, castration, total power exchange, kink camp, the beauty of friendships in the kink community, and nailing cocks to a wooden board.

“I’ve tied people to trees.”

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VIDEO CHAT: Mistress Jennifer pt. II 4.2023 w/ Nicholas Tanek

“A lot of people think fetish parties are orgies… they are not.”

Mistress Jennifer is a legendary Dominatrix and Event coordinator in Houston, TX who returns to discuss BDSM events, Pride Events, feet, confinement with saran wrap, straight jackets, the beauty of getting older in the kink community, and getting wounded by a f*ck machine.

“He wanted me to kick as hard as possible.”

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