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Coming Out As Kinky
By Nicholas Tanek
Shame and secrecy have plagued some of my vanilla relationships, but those days are over. These days, I am kinky and proud. Still, there was a time in my life where I had all of these fantasies and desires I was afraid to express because of my vanilla partner.
Lynn was the love of my life and she died in 2012. When we were totally honest about our kinks, without shame, our lives changed for the better.
I knew I was not alone, so I asked some of my kinky friends about coming out as a kinky person. I asked them three questions. Here are their answers.
My Musician Friends and I Discuss SEX & MUSIC
Close Lobsters, Severed Heads, Memoirs of Addiction, and Producers of the Word
By Nicholas Tanek
Music and sex are essential aspects of my life. I always have a soundtrack in my head, especially when it comes to sex. I wrote three books filled with kinky sex and an endless amount of music references. There are songs that get me in the mood. There are songs that I have on in the background during sex. Then, there are songs for the afterglow or come down.
The sexuality of music has always intrigued me. So, I asked some of my musician friends three questions regarding the connection between music and sex.
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Why Femdom Is Cool As F**k by Nicholas Tanek
Femdom has made my life better. I’ve always been kinky and I’ve always been interested in the power dynamic where a woman is in control, but it was not until I was in my thirties that I embraced my love of femdom.
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