Jaeleen Bennis is the Creator of Bondassage®, Elysium by Bondassage®, Bondassage For Couples, The Art of Bondassage Online Course and The Advanced Art of Bondassage Video Course. She is the co-author of the book “Bondassage: Erotic Massage For Lovers”, written with Eve Minax. Sadism! Bondage! Sensory Deprivation and more.
Nicholas Tanek sits down and has a video chat with her.
Continue reading VIDEO CHAT: Jaeleen Bennis (Bondassage) with Nicholas Tanek
BDSM ON A BUDGET
As Nicholas Tanek says in every interview… support independent vendors who make high-quality kink gear if you can, but sometimes you’re in a financial bind. And sometimes you just want to get crafty! Suggestions from Nicholas’s video interviews are always an excellent source of inspiration (see suggestion two of this article). Sometimes simply walking the aisles of the Dollar Tree can get your kinky mind-gears turning. Here are a few inexpensive ideas that you can try using things you can find at the dollar store and some duct tape.
The kink community needs heroes more than ever now. With FOSTA/SESTA and ongoing suppression of sexual expression, there are some kinky people who want to educate, enlighten, and help kinky people. Through my journey into the BDSM world, I have met many heroes. So, I asked them a couple of questions.
Here are their answers.
Continue reading Heroes of The Kink Community Part V by Nicholas Tanek
It’s good to think about the bright shiny spots and the shitty dull moments of life as a year closes. Reflection helps us to grow as people, and the resolutions we make for ourselves promise betterment and enlightenment for a happier future. Some people choose to go for a goal like our friends Jay Tesst who wants to learn how to do play piercings and1RuleSupercedes who is going to put out a new album in February. Others may choose something less tangible like spiritual enlightenment or inner peace. Your Kinky Friends sent us their resolutions, and here are our goals, wishes, and/or hopes for a brand spanking new year. Continue reading Happy New Year from Your Kinky Friends! – Kinky Resolutions!
Maya Berger is an editor and proofreader of erotic fiction (as well as other fiction and non-fiction genres). She is the owner of What I Mean To Say – Clear and Professional Copy-editing and Proofreading, and she specializes in editing stories with BDSM and other kink themes, LGBTQ+ characters, and non-traditional relationships, and in sensitivity reading for all of the above. She is passionate about diversity, inclusivity, and accurate representation in erotica and in all writing.
Nicholas Tanek sits down and has a video chat with her.
Continue reading VIDEO CHAT: Maya Berger with Nicholas Tanek
Miss Gomorahh is a BDSM lifestyle educator, sadist, author, and host of The Miss Gomorahh’s Show.
Nicholas Tanek sits down and has a video interview with her.
https://youtu.be/5rxgXE2ukQ8
Monica Lee Floyd is an award-winning artist and author.
Nicholas Tanek sits down with her for a video interview.
Continue reading VIDEO CHAT: Monica Lee Floyd with Nicholas Tanek
I love Halloween. The atmosphere of delightfully creepy things is the perfect backdrop for wicked fun. Now, people are allowed to dress up any time of year. If I want to dress as Batman on the fourth of July, I will put on a mask and run around my house saving the houseplants. I may want to be a sissy maid on a Tuesday night so I put on my French maid outfit and let my Domme fuck me with a strap-on dildo. I can do this any day of the year, but the Halloween season makes dressing up magical.
It feels so good to put on a costume and be someone different for a little while. Adults have the option to add the spin of sex appeal to their tricks and treats. Normally shy people may be strutting around in corsets and thongs and the energy is infectious. The classic sexy costumes like French maid, sexy nurse, or Morticia from The Addams Family are always a welcome sight, but the creative aspect of Halloween makes it extra exciting. I never know what sexed up concoction I will see at a dungeon party, Wal-Mart, or tagging along for trick or treating. I may see John Snow from Game of Thrones looking hot in a pair of fishnets with a little cleavage showing or Bert and Ernie in ball gags and leather. Adults are sexual beings and Halloween is the perfect holiday to let sexual creativity come out to play.
The sexuality of Halloween costumes has always intrigued me. So, I asked my kinky friends about how outfits affect and change their sex lives.
Continue reading Our Kinky Friends Discuss the Sexuality of HALLOWEEN Costumes by Nicholas Tanek
My husband asked me once why I like to be spanked, flogged and handled roughly. He wanted to understand why I like the things that cause pain. I explained him that it helps me cope with my disabilities.
by Miss Melissa AND TangledBlue
The beautiful Miss Melissa and I are kinksters. I know this shocks our faithful readers because we do come off as chaste demure women who blush at the mention of the word “tinkle.” But in reality, we are huge fans of the weird things that make our loins go buzzy. We think one of the best things about kink is all the toys. If you have begun your own adventure in exploring ideas behind bondage, power play, pet play, and other exciting endeavors, you will start to collect STUFF. We decided to put our pretty little heads together and offer Our Kinky Friends advice on how to manage all the glorious stuff of kink.
