YKF Author Circle w/ Carli De Ville, Melissa Todd, Dirk Hooper, & Nicholas Tanek

Nicholas Tanek and his author friends from the YKF podcast discuss writing in the kink/BDSM community, editing, publishing, marketing, and the legacy of their books. Tonight’s guests include Carli De Ville, Melissa Todd, & Dirk Hooper.

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VIDEO CHAT: Mistress Lyn (U.K.) – 2.2023

“I’m having an affair with sadism.”

Mistress Lyn is a legendary non-sexual sadist in Kent, UK. We talk about the beauty of growing older in the BDSM community, separating BDSM and sex, events, classes, consent, healing through BDSM, and shredding testicles.

“I’ve never shredded anyone’s balls, but there is always a first time for anything.”

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VIDEO CHAT: Melissa Todd (aka Miss Matthews) – 11.2022 w/ Nicholas Tanek

The sex industry saved my life.”

Class is in session.

Melissa Todd is the author of My Body My Business and a performer in Kent. Also known as Miss Matthews, Headmistress of Bellington Academy, we sit down and discuss being a strict BDSM teacher, the reality of sex work, the power of her British accent, her love of books, and how she used to tie up her friends.

I love caning.”

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VIDEO CHAT: Mistress Dahlia w/ Nicholas Tanek

Beg me to treat you like a dirty whore.”

Mistress Dahlia is a Dominatrix in Manchester, England. We discuss impact play, sissification (taking sissies into the woods and have them burn their “boy boxes,”) chastity, CBT, ballbusting, sex therapy roleplay, feet, vegetarian cooking, and making men pee in cat litter box trays.

I like getting brutal with my feet.”

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