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John Baku (founder/CEO of FetLife.com) – 12.2025

“If everybody has a mission despite their differences, great things happen.”

John Baku is the founder and CEO of FetLife.com, the world’s largest social network for the BDSM, fetish, and kink communities. John reflects on how FetLife has transformed countless lives and connected people across the globe—yet still can’t secure a spot in the Apple App Store. They revisit its humble beginnings in Canada, the craft of coding, the guiding force of love at its heart, and the vibrant, ever-expanding world John has quietly shaped and continues to nurture.

“As we get older, we are trying to do less, better.”

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VIDEO CHAT: Miss Melissa Cuts Nicholas Tanek’s Hair

Miss Melissa is an artist, writer, and kinkster. We talk about how we met, putting men in panties, oral sex in a public park, overcoming body shaming, and the My Favorite Murder Podcast. We talk kink as she cuts my hair during the quarantine.

https://youtu.be/WmfDWxQNwxc

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VIDEO CHAT: L’Aureola with Nicholas Tanek

L’Aureola is a Burlesque Performer who found confidence through the sexuality of Burlesque after her mastectomy. Yes, she has only one nipple now.  We talk about how Burlesque saved her. We also discuss films, outfits, music, Fetlife, dancing, and more.

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Real Wild FETLIFE Conversations w/ Nicholas Tanek

Since I am constantly marketing my books and this website, many fans and strangers contact me with  weird messages. I am “out” as a kinky person. I was also a Fetlife.com greeter. For a year, I had to greet new Fetlife members every day. I had to show them how to use the site and give them some tips. So I put myself out there and try to be as social as possible in the kink community.  These are some messages that are so weird and funny that I had to post them. NOTE: all names and faces have been removed. CLICK ON THE SCREENSHOT TO READ THE CONVERSATION.

 

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S2 Ep 20 – Nicholas Tanek on Fetish World Podcast – “A Lot Of Cunnilingus”

https://soundcloud.com/user-145533768/s2e20-fetish-world-podcast-a-lot-of-cunnilingus

 

Great podcast. Great episode. Very funny.

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TICKLE FIGHT: A Real & Quirky Fetlife Conversation

by Nicholas Tanek

Yes… this actually happened.

This was a real Fetlife conversation. I know this was just someone being weird, but I just had to post this one. Since I am always promoting my books and Your Kinky Friends on Fetlife and Collarspace, I get into many weird conversations on http://fetlife.com. This one is exceptionally strange and funny.

 

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