I’m the wife of a man who survived prostate cancer and who deals with low testosterone. Now that may not mean much to most people, but to those like me who have a man with these two issues, it means a great deal.
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https://soundcloud.com/user-145533768/s2e20-fetish-world-podcast-a-lot-of-cunnilingus
Great podcast. Great episode. Very funny.
Continue reading S2 Ep 20 – Nicholas Tanek on Fetish World Podcast – “A Lot Of Cunnilingus”
I reached out to our kinky friends and we shared our favorite kink websites.
We know some BDSM Erotica authors who truly represent the kink community and the culture. When I published The Coolest Way to Kill Yourself, it was filed under the genre of romance. My book is a true love story that includes kinky sex. One of the major themes in the book is how exploring kink can be healing. At the time, 50 Shades of Grey was very popular, and so many authors tried to jump on the bandwagon. When I was promoting my book, I was overwhelmed by the number of authors who did not represent BDSM in the proper way. As someone who is active in the kink community, it annoyed me. I understand some books are just fantasy, but I still think that BDSM Erotica authors have a responsibility to the kink community and their readers.
So, I asked some of my BDSM Erotica author friends several questions. Here are their answers.
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Heroes save lives and the kink community saved mine. My life was a mess. I met some wonderful people who have been kind and helpful throughout my journey within the kink community. This is only part one in a series about people who I truly think are heroes in the kink community.
So, I talked to some of my kinky heroes and asked them questions about giving back to the community. Here are their answers.
by Miss_Melissa_
Did you ever hump the side of the bath tub or the arm of the couch? Did you ever make a masturbation tent because teenage-you couldn’t stand the staring, judging eyes of all the posters on your walls and ceiling? Did you ever put something that wasn’t “body safe” inside of yourself, lose hold of it, and then pee your bed trying to push it back out? No? Is it just me? Listen, we’re all friends here. Be honest. I know I’m not the only one.
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Throughout the years, I have known many vanilla people who got involved in kink and now, they feel like kink saved their lives. Not everyone can wrap their head around kinky sexual expression. Some people cannot even understand the concept of being tied up. Once they break their borders, a sense of healing starts. I am a recovering drug addict. I’m not going back to drugs and kink is a major reason for that. While I do have this addictive behavior, it was love, kink, and sexual expression that helped me get through drug addiction and emotional loss after the death of the love of my life.
So, I asked some of our kinky friends some questions about how being kinky healed them. Here are their answers.
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by Tangled Blue
I love playing with sex toys, and I bought a Magic Wand because it’s a classic toy that I had not tried. My husband was super excited, and with visions of forced orgasms in his head, he bought a harness to hold the tool in place. We eagerly discussed a scene where he would use the tool and harness while I was tied to the wall spread eagle under a spotlight. Sounds good, right? Well…
Being kinky is fun, but it can sometimes be dangerous. I look at the kink community and the lifestyle in a very positive light. Personally, I tend to focus on the fun and friendship aspect. At the same time, there are social, physical, and mental aspects that can damage a person. If someone is not careful, they can meet the wrong person. There are certain kinks, like breath play, knife play, or fire play, where someone can get hurt if not done correctly.
So, I asked some of my kinky friends about the dangers of kink and how to stay safe. Here are their answers.
Kinky people are human and humans make mistakes. There is an etiquette in the kink community, like anywhere else. Although I consider myself a switch, I am very much into Femdom. I have made some truly dumb mistakes approaching Dommes. I have grown quite a bit since then and learned some valuable lessons. Of course, I’m still learning and growing as a kinky person. In general, it’s important to have etiquette when dealing with anyone, even in the kink community.
So, I asked some of my friends in the kink community three questions and I hope their answers may help others.
Continue reading Some Dos & Don’ts of Approaching People In The Kink Community
