YKF Growl: BDSM BURNOUT (w/ The Lady Lioness & Nicholas Tanek)

The Lady Lioness & Nicholas Tanek discuss BDSM BURNOUT. Kink burnout is that quiet (or crushing) feeling when the hunger fades, scenes feel like chores, time-wasters & catfish drain you dry, and even your favorite fetish starts tasting like obligation.

Important takeaways: You are not broken. Pausing isn’t failure. The community has space for rest (podcasts, online classes, vanilla hangouts with kinky friends).  Play Recovery Roulette!

Ultimate message: Change is constant. The kink ocean is vast. Someone (or something) can reignite your flame when you least expect it.

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YKF WEEKENDS: Finding A Kink Space (w/ The LadyLioness, Cassidy Cream, & Mistress Sophie)

Are you having trouble finding a space to be kinky? This episode is for you. TheLadyLioness, Cassidy Cream, & Mistress Sophie discuss finding a safe and inspiring place to get kinky.

From shedding judgment at your first munch to vetting new dungeons by checking hosts’ ethics and attendee vibes, the panel drops wisdom for hesitant newbies. They tackle small-town scenes, the rise of paid professional dungeons and kinky Airbnbs (mostly a win for accessibility), inclusivity must-haves like elevators and diversity statements, and ultimate dream spaces, ranging from equestrian pony stables to shadowy, high-energy warehouses with aftercare nooks. Nicholas Tanek tells his story of pallet wrap in public.

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VIDEO CHAT: Carli de Ville (Naughtylicious) – 6.2023 w/ Nicholas Tanek

“I’m getting litty like a locked up useless clitty!”

Carli de Ville (Sexologist & Psychotherapist creating educational content on Sex/Kink/BDSM) is the author of NAUGHTYLICIOUS. We use the book/game to discuss kinky icebreakers for both swingers and couples.  We have a conversation to inspire other kinky conversations.

 

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