Starla Vamp – 9.2024 w/ Nicholas Tanek

“Art should be a purge… and a bit messy.”

Goddess Starla Vamp returns to talk about making music, the life of an artist, owning your own space, the closing of Femdom Bride, forced feminization, defending Alien 3, conceptualizing her LP of original music, and how the best kink is not mainstream.

“Go off the grid.”

 

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The Femdom Intoxication Episode – 11.2023 w/ Vivian, Vex, & Nicco Noire

“I microdose DMT on a fairly regular basis.” – Vivian

Vivian, Vex, Nicco Noire, and Nicholas Tanek discuss intoxication play, micro-dosing, cannabis, mushrooms, forced Viagra, DMT shibari sessions, sissy hypno, music, role play, femdom, serotonin, and psychedelic hot chocolate.

“I automatically take the role as the doctor” – Vex

Note: This is harm reduction. YKF does NOT condone any form of non-consensual intoxication play.  

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VIDEO CHAT: Goddess Medusa (Rock Star Domina from Rio) – 8.2023 w/ Nicholas Tanek

“I wish I had more hands so I could feel more things at the same time.”

Amy Stargher (aka Goddess Medusa) is the Rock Star Domina from Rio de Janeiro (living in Los Angeles). Her Brazilian accent hypnotizes me as she talks about foot night parties (foot worship), pegging, aftercare, and the love of performing various cover versions of her favorite songs.

“Hugs & head scratches”

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“What Am I Doing in Dunellen?” – Dave Hill at The Dunellen Theatre – 5.26.2023 by Nicholas Tanek

 

“I’m trying to impress my 15-year-old self” – Dave Hill

On a beautiful Spring evening in Dunellen, Dave Hill reminded me how much a comedy show can inspire.  He happened to be doing this show on the very last day I would live in Dunellen. So, in the spirit of George Carlin, I wanted to ask him what he was doing in New Jersey. His response was simple: he lives in New York City, and he took the train to the Dunellen Theatre. The essence of the answer is that this comedian, songwriter, musician, and author, who has performed professionally around the world, created a sense of mirth for a legendary theatre in the small central New Jersey town of Dunellen.

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VIDEO Interview: Kurt Ralske (Ultra Vivid Scene)

By entering fantasy, there is an authenticity that comes out of that.”

Kurt Ralske is the creator of the 90’s indie psychedelic art-house 4AD band Ultra Vivid Scene and a Professor of the Practice in Digital Media at Tufts University’s School of the Museum of Fine Arts, Boston. We discuss BDSM themes in music and art, the 3 UVS albums, The Breeders, having James Franco as a student, weird Japanese softcore pornography, the blockchain, and making the artistic creative process comfortable and fun.

Those are my people…. the goths.”

 

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VIDEO CHAT: Miss Levi Lake – 9.2022 w/ Nicholas Tanek

“I’m a sadist with a foot fetish.”

Miss Levi Lake is a Dominatrix and Software Engineer in Chicago, IL. We talk about sadism, bastinado, foot torture, music that purposely causes anxiety, playing Ramones songs at half speed, hitting someone’s feet for 90 minutes, corporal punishment using contact microphones, and playing dildo ring toss. She also shows us the stocks she puts men’s feet in.

“The parts of a woman I am most attracted to are the parts of men I want to hurt the most.”

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VIDEO CHAT: Kaya Anais w/ Nicholas Tanek

Recorded – 7.2021

“Nailing c*ocks to a board is in my future.”

Kaya Anais is a Dominatrix in California. We discuss hypnosis, medical massage therapy, CBT, spanking, sounding, blood play, music, food, Anais Nin, and more.

“I’m happy to hurt you but harming someone goes against me being a woman, a Domme, and a healer.”

Recorded – 7.2021

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VIDEO CHAT: Lilian Sin Voodoo Kitten and Mortis

Lilian Sin Voodoo Kitten is a Burlesque Performer who started Voodoo Kittens Metal Fetish Show. She is joined by her partner Mortis, a musician and artist. We talk Burlesque, goth/industrial music, B-horror films, “Cannibal Hookers,” keeping it romantic during the quarantine. OH!!! Find out what a coffin bed is!

Nicholas Tanek sits down and has a video chat with them.

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VIDEO CHAT: Erin Melancholic w/ Nicholas Tanek

Erin Melancholic is an erotic model, musician, & photographer. We talk about being an exhibitionist, the love of sexual expression, fetish/erotic modeling, vetting photographers, post-punk music, being covered in messy things, smelling her boyfriend’s feet, and finding kinky boots at thrift stores.

Nicholas Tanek sits down and has a video chat with her.

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Video Chat: Shy Machine with Nicholas Tanek

Shy Machine is a new 3 piece band. THIS IS A MUSIC EPISODE!!!. We talk sexy music, not-sexy music, punk rock, goth music, new bands, old bands, songs that put you in the mood, songs that put you out of the mood. NERD out with us about music!

Nicholas Tanek sits down and sits with the band!

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