Isabella Dollish – 12.2024 w/ Nicholas Tanek

“Spank it out.”

Isabella Dollish from Intrinsic Kink Inc. is helping to heal the world through the kink community. Worldwide but centered in Colorado, Intrinsic Kink Inc. is a non-profit organization that aims to safely and respectfully educate kinksters. We discuss The Dollhouse, how CONSENT is sexy, spanking parties, sissification, being a switch, abuse vs domination, etiquette, the best pillows on the planet, how sadism equals ecstasy,  and what a porcupenicus is.

“Cuddles or hugs or beatings.”

 

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Lady Sublime 12.2024 w/ Nicholas Tanek

“Any butt is spankable.”

Lady Sublime is a Dominatrix from Texas who recently graduated from The Dominatrix Academy. Your GrandSmother and I talk about our love of SPANKING and being a SPANKO, spanking parties, domination vs. topping, cute aggression, post-nut clarity, being a pleasure sadist, Polyfidelity, Mommy Domme vs. Naughty Auntie, and how to use the pudendal nerve to make sissies cum in chastity from spanking. She also shows us her bag of impact play toys.

“Post-nut clarity is a b!tch.”

 

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VIDEO CHAT: Mistress Jennifer pt. II 4.2023 w/ Nicholas Tanek

“A lot of people think fetish parties are orgies… they are not.”

Mistress Jennifer is a legendary Dominatrix and Event coordinator in Houston, TX who returns to discuss BDSM events, Pride Events, feet, confinement with saran wrap, straight jackets, the beauty of getting older in the kink community, and getting wounded by a f*ck machine.

“He wanted me to kick as hard as possible.”

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VIDEO CHAT: Melissa Todd (aka Miss Matthews) – 11.2022 w/ Nicholas Tanek

The sex industry saved my life.”

Class is in session.

Melissa Todd is the author of My Body My Business and a performer in Kent. Also known as Miss Matthews, Headmistress of Bellington Academy, we sit down and discuss being a strict BDSM teacher, the reality of sex work, the power of her British accent, her love of books, and how she used to tie up her friends.

I love caning.”

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VIDEO CHAT: Ms_Kitten_ pt II – 8.2022 w/ Nicholas Tanek

“I’ve connected two people again with strings and needles.”

Ms_Kitten returns! Hailing from Capetown, South Africa, we talk about her new film Black Widow with Mistress April,  sewing people together, a human needle zipper, the power of consent, Capetown South Africa, needle play, CBT, spanking, sewing a ball sack to make it into a vagina, how she does everything in life to the extreme. She also shows us her impact play toys from The Play Box!

“This is kink. It’s meant to enhance our relationships, not harm them.”

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VIDEO CHAT: Mistress Schari (Mischief Matters) w/ Nicholas Tanek

“I swear I have carpal tunnel syndrome from spanking people.”

Mistress Schari (The Accidental Domme) is a BDSM/kink educator, dominatrix, and host of the Mischief Matters Radio Podcast. We discuss classes for couples, make-up, lingerie, femdom, crossdressing, sex toys, feet, CBT, spanking, and the kinky side of Star Wars and Star Trek.

 

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VIDEO CHAT: Kaya Anais w/ Nicholas Tanek

Recorded – 7.2021

“Nailing c*ocks to a board is in my future.”

Kaya Anais is a Dominatrix in California. We discuss hypnosis, medical massage therapy, CBT, spanking, sounding, blood play, music, food, Anais Nin, and more.

“I’m happy to hurt you but harming someone goes against me being a woman, a Domme, and a healer.”

Recorded – 7.2021

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VIDEO: Luna Darke talks YKF, Nicholas, & does Q&A – 12.3.2021

Luna Darke talks YKF, Nicholas, & does Q&A – 12.3.2021

We talk about the future of Your Kinky Friends, kink, gatherings, relationships, cirrhosis of the liver, butt plugs, flogging, astrology, Nick’s health issues, and more!

 

VIDEO: The YKF SPANKING Special w/ Miss Chris, Miss Cassie, & Luna Darke

“When someone says ‘brand spanking new,’ my ears perk up.” – Miss Chris

YFK has 3 guests for our panel episode on SPANKING! Miss Chris, Miss Cassie, and Luna Darke join Nicholas Tanek to discuss spanking, being spanked, spanking people, education, discipline, roleplay, the history of spanking, the emotional connection, and being spanked by a Leprechaun.

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VIDEO CHAT: Miss Cassie Part II w/ Nicholas Tanek

Before we knew it, we were slapping boobies.”

Miss Cassie is back and loves ROPE! She is a professional Dominatrix at the legendary Sanctuary dungeon in L.A. We discuss rope, suspension, sensual flogging, nipple torture, SanctuaryLAX, her online store of tools and jewelry (Clue Darker Creations), and how the best part of BDSM is connectivity.

He liked me to burn designs on the head of his penis.”

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