Janelle Fennec is a TS girl (Trans) who makes porn movies. She is a submissive bottom who also dominates cis girls. She also has been nominated for AVN awards and various other awards.
Nicholas Tanek sits down and has a video chat with her.
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Amanda is the host of The Blunt Mommy Podcast. She is a #Louisianimal, works in finance and is a single mother. Her favorite thing to do is talk about sex. Anything and everything about SEX. She also drinks and burps during the podcast. Get your kink on. #CabalFoLife
Nicholas Tanek sits down and has a video chat with her.
NOTE: She burps (loud) 9 times throughout this interview.
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Doing service in public is a completely different animal than serving in private. The noise, distractions, and challenges of a public event make being a conscientious servant very different than serving in a private venue. I encourage people to practice public service at a BDSM event to gain confidence and poise. This different type of experience allows you to troubleshoot elements to work on to strengthen your bond.
Monica Lee Floyd is an award-winning artist and author.
Nicholas Tanek sits down with her for a video interview.
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Luna Darke and Nicholas Tanek discuss going to EXXXotica 2018, sex toys (Miss Melissa’s sex toy foot locker, friendship, and my book, The Coolest Way to Kill Yourself
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Lady Von Piper, better known to her submissives as “Cultress”; is a 23-year-old Canadian who has been in the scene professionally for 2 years, and has enjoyed it for many years previous. She specializes in phone sex and verbal role play. She has had hundreds of submissives, ranging in location from Germany, to Russia, to her own hometown in Ontario. She is extremely versatile and creative and loves to be challenged by authentically odd fetishes.
Nicholas Tanek sits down and has a video chat with her.
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I love Halloween. The atmosphere of delightfully creepy things is the perfect backdrop for wicked fun. Now, people are allowed to dress up any time of year. If I want to dress as Batman on the fourth of July, I will put on a mask and run around my house saving the houseplants. I may want to be a sissy maid on a Tuesday night so I put on my French maid outfit and let my Domme fuck me with a strap-on dildo. I can do this any day of the year, but the Halloween season makes dressing up magical.
It feels so good to put on a costume and be someone different for a little while. Adults have the option to add the spin of sex appeal to their tricks and treats. Normally shy people may be strutting around in corsets and thongs and the energy is infectious. The classic sexy costumes like French maid, sexy nurse, or Morticia from The Addams Family are always a welcome sight, but the creative aspect of Halloween makes it extra exciting. I never know what sexed up concoction I will see at a dungeon party, Wal-Mart, or tagging along for trick or treating. I may see John Snow from Game of Thrones looking hot in a pair of fishnets with a little cleavage showing or Bert and Ernie in ball gags and leather. Adults are sexual beings and Halloween is the perfect holiday to let sexual creativity come out to play.
The sexuality of Halloween costumes has always intrigued me. So, I asked my kinky friends about how outfits affect and change their sex lives.
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Antique Deb is the host of Slave Nation Radio on Beaten Path Network. She considers herself a lifestyle slave and has her own wonderful radio show.
Nicholas Tanek sits down and has a video chat with her.
It is not uncommon for people coming into BDSM to use caricatures as a model on how to act until they figure themselves out. These caricatures are sometimes based on our limited books/movies and extensive porn. Other times they are based on a preconceived notion of how someone with “that identity” would act. In the beginning of finding your identity having a caricature can be empowering. It can give you an idea into who you want to be. I remember my caricature as a new Dominant. The caricature I assumed was quiet, calm, and hyper vigilant. It took so much energy that I couldn’t sustain it outside of the public BDSM space, but that is when I felt I needed it.
Being submissive is an art form that is cultivated and enhanced through practice and patience. Submissive kinksters offer a specific kind of trust that is not easy to find and may be abused by their dominant counterparts. The openness of a submissive can be interpreted as weakness, but in fact, the ability to submit requires great strength. There are submissive friends who live the lifestyle 24/7 and there are the ones who submit just in the bedroom. Either way, submissives are a valuable part of the BDSM community. I gathered some of my favorite submissive friends, and I asked them several questions.
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