Its no secret that the BDSM world is full of wonderful toys meant to take you to the edge of ecstasy or agony, beautiful adornments for the body, and furniture to act as a stage for your kinky scene. I love it all. I love my floggers, my collars, my corsets, and my violet wand. I even find myself gazing at things I don’t think I’d ever want to try because its all so fascinating! Despite my enthusiasm, I know that my kink goes a little deeper. With me, it all starts in the brain. I’ve had brutal scenes where many toys were used, but I didn’t feel submissive. This is important to me. Contrary wise, I’ve had scenes where no toys were used, but I was so deep into subspace I was almost in tears. I won’t be able to cover everything as there is no end to what you can do, but I hope what I can cover will spark your kinky imagination. A mental tool I love so much is obedience training.
Author: Your Kinky Friends
Punishment (M/s Relationship) – Part 2 of 2 by Master Bear
Punishment part two of two
by Master Bear
I am against corporal punishment, but there are more than personal reasons why. More often than not, I have seen abuse and resentment be the byproducts of corporal punishment. I have three examples to share.
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Why I Like Pain by SassyWitch666
My husband asked me once why I like to be spanked, flogged and handled roughly. He wanted to understand why I like the things that cause pain. I explained him that it helps me cope with my disabilities.
VIDEO CHAT: MsMadyson with Nicholas Tanek
Mistress MsMadyson A. DeLaRough, but you can call her MsMadyson {do note that it is big M little “s” big M no space. } It’s that way for a reason which happens to be that is how she wants it… She has known about the lifestyle in 1988, got in 1991 & became a Pro Dom in 2000. She does what she loves. Her whole family knows & she does her personal best to not hide from them or the people she chooses to love.
Nicholas Tanek sits down and hast a video chat with her.
VIDEO CHAT: “1 Rule Supersedes” with Nicholas Tanek
“1 Rule Supersedes” is a musician from New Jersey and fetish enthusiast.
Nicholas Tanek sits down and talks with him.
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VIDEO CHAT: Alace Amory with Nicholas Tanek
Alace Amory has been into different aspects of the lifestyle for as long as she can remember. She enjoys cuckolding, general kink, polyamory, lezdom, FLRs and BDSM. She is a fetish clip producer, a non-nude performer, cam tease, fetish session enthusiast, and trains long term subs. Some things she incorporates into her playtime are authentic energy exchanges, sensual energy play, & connection building for bonding.
Nicholas Tanek sits down and has a video chat with her.
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VIDEO CHAT: Jay Tesst with Nicholas Tanek
Jay is a forty-something Dominant Sadist and has been a kinkster for over 20 years. He has been actively trying to educate people about kink for just as long.
He recently joined the BoldPleasures tribe to actively educate non-kinksters and kinksters alike about kink and sexuality.
Nicholas Tanek sits down and chats with him.
A Tale of Two Cocks by Tangled Blue
I bought my first real sex toy in 1999 from the Good Vibrations catalog. It was a jelly purple thing that had five glorious speeds. It lasted four months. Since then, I’ve expanded my collection of toys to include buzzy, thrusty, spinning things, and simple smooth glass. I’ve had wands and rabbits; bullets and teasers; monsters and minis. They have all had their perks and downfalls. I love looking for new toys.
VIDEO CHAT: Mistress Alexxxia with Nicholas Tanek
Mistress Alexxxia is a central New York-based Dominatrix, published model, and artist. She has only been in the Domme role since May of 2017 but has been involved in the kink world since late 2011. Her specialties include financial domination, cuckolding, ass worship, ritual roleplay, and CBT (cock and ball torture).
Alexxxia was always one with a clever brain and never ending imagination, and spent most of her life as the artistic type who was often kicked around. Now, having found her inner voice and power, she has been making up for lost time, channeling it all into destroying men’s egos with a special sadistic flair.
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BDSM On A Budget: YKF Interviewee Edition (part three) #ThriftyKinkThursday
by Miss_Melissa_
The thrifty kink suggestions from the wonderful people that Nicholas has interviewed are as varied and awesome as they are! This week’s thrifty spotlight includes great suggestions from Mistress Genevieve, dungeon proprietress and educator; Susan Wright, founder of the National Coalition for Sexual Freedom; and Goddess Nyx, artist, fetish model and experience creator.
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