VIDEO CHAT: Mistress Lillian Bastet w/ Nicholas Tanek

Mistress Lillian Bastet is a Professional Dominatrix and Artist based out of San Francisco, California. It was through her performance art that she got introduced to the world of BDSM and began to dive into the practices of domination. She approaches each session as she does her art by creating an open space for expression, creativity, and catharsis to be shared and witnessed. She refers to herself as a sensual sadist and especially enjoys play that involves some type of intentional transformation. Activities such as impact play, (to experience pain for release and pleasure), sensory deprivation (to free the mind and listen to the body), feminization (to be seen in a new way without judgment), and slave training (to teach and expand one’s ability to understand and practice servitude.) are just some of her favorites. Regardless of the play, she is most inspired by the unique connection that can happen in the D/s dynamic and feels that through this vulnerability, the empowerment of each individual can be awakened.

As a makeup and performance artist, Mistress Lillian enjoys developing and evolving herself as a dominatrix and finds that this seeps into her artistry outside of the dungeon space. She can be seen performing in clubs and stages around the Bay Area or collaborating on conceptual photography for digital and print. Having recently attended her first DomCon, she is more inspired than ever to do and promote this kind of work and is looking to develop workshops that offer insight into the practiced skills and creative passion that go into being a dominatrix.

Nicholas Tanek has a video chat with her.

 

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VIDEO CHAT: Sugarc*nt w/ Nicholas Tanek

Sugarcunt is a nonbinary, queer, nonmonogamous, disabled sex blogger, sex educator, social media maven, and humiliatrix. Sugar loves being loud and naked on the internet for fun and profit. They are an intensely kinky switch with a wide range of dungeon and D/s role interests, whose flames are stoked by submission, but will warm the room with dominant energy.
Sugar’s professional dominatrix specialties include chastity, domestic service, financial domination, humiliation, degradation, and emotional sadism. As a sub, they are most authentically a bratty, age-independent little. Sugar began their foray into the sex industry in 2011 with blogging and reviewing sex toys, but their interests span all over the adult industry and they intend to be a “lifer” within the community.
Sugar lives with their cat and a small army of sex toys on land ceded by the Duwamish, Puget Sound Salish, and Columbia-Wenatchi tribes near Seattle, Washington. When they aren’t teaching holiday dinner guests about urethral sounding, making boys cry, or giving free marketing lessons on Twitter, they’re probably playing with their tarot deck or re-reading the rules to a game for the fourth time in a row.

 

 

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VIDEO CHAT: Jacqi Kill (The Bad Drugs) w/ Nicholas Tanek

Jacqi Kill is the lead singer of punk rock band, THE BAD DRUGS. She is a Houston born and raised, communist, professional makeup artist, kinkster, and musician. A genderqueer, polyamorous, catgirl wrangler, and punk scene native.

Jacqi has worked as a fetish entertainer, creating fun and kinky nightclub scenes. Jacqi lives in the city with her two cats and is doubly partnered.

 

She is in the band called The Bad Drugs.

VIDEO CHAT: Satin Jade w/ Nicholas Tanek

Satin Jade was born and raised in Amsterdam, The Netherlands. She has always seen satin as a sensual, feminine, and classy fabric. She loves to be dressed in negligees, underwear, as well as high heels and that secretary look. So in puberty, she was a little insecure and thought it was not for her. But when she got older, satin was still on her mind and something she thought a man would think of as sexy.

Then, she met her husband to be and his love for satin was very strong. Now, it’s grown in to a fetish.

She says it feels great on her skin, so smooth, sexy, and sensual. She wears it all the time.

Nicholas Tanek sits down with her for a chat.

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VIDEO CHAT: Lady Remedy Ann w/ Nicholas Tanek

Lady Remedy Ann is a sensually charged Mistress from Los Angeles. She offers professional services out of Sanctuary Studios since they first opened up almost 7 years ago. she was independent prior to that since 2006. Specialties are latex, She is also a fetish performance artist and have done 2 feature films “Code name Diablo.” and “The Blond Squad.” She is also in the music video Phantagram’s “You don’t get me high anymore.” She has also performed at AVN, DomCon, and have been featured and several cable shows about BDSM.

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A Kinky Start – Our Friends Discuss Their First Real Kink Experience by Nicholas Tanek

Everything has a beginning. There are various ways to initiate a kinky/BDSM lifestyle. It may start with playfully exploring kink and the offer of a little spank here or there. Perhaps, dabbling in light bondage awakens something inside of you. Or maybe, you slip on silk panties just to try them on for fun. But then one day the line between curiosity and desire is crossed, and you discover a driving need for more. BDSM becomes part of your life. So I asked a couple of my kinky friends about their first experiences of living out fantasies.

Here are their answers…

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VIDEO CHAT: Goddess Nyx w/ Nicholas Tanek

Goddess Nyx is a Los Angeles based artist, fetish model and experience creator with a penchant for freaks and a body of curves that will take your breath away… literally. Her fetish interests are deeply varied and ever-growing, but some of her favorites include smothering/squishing, sensation play, wrestling, sploshing, pet play and cbt. When she is not busting balls at Sanctuary Studios she is usually working on her line of faux fur clothing and kink accessories, because she believes that life would be better if it were fuzzier.

#ThriftyKinkThursday: Stick Your Dick in Stuff

by Tangled Blue

Being thrifty is nifty especially when you need some sexy fun time.  This #ThriftyKinkThursday is going to be a little different. We are offering a collection of ideas rather than a scene.  So let’s explore things that you can stick your dick into for fun!

I’m sure for most penis bearers ramming your cock into another person or person shaped object is the preference, but that isn’t always feasible.  I wanted a list that thrifty kinksters could keep in handy just in case they didn’t have a friend or specialized toy to poke.  This would also be a good list for a Domme who wants to give her sweet sissy sub a treat. Continue reading #ThriftyKinkThursday: Stick Your Dick in Stuff

VIDEO CHAT: Susan Wright (National Coalition For Sexual Freedom) w/ Nicholas Tanek

Susan Wright founded the National Coalition for Sexual Freedom in 1997, and currently serves as Spokesperson and Director of Incident Reporting & Response. Susan has presented over a hundred seminars for professional organizations, Universities and community groups on discrimination against consenting adults, consent, and sex & the media. She chaired the successful DSM-5 Revision Project which resulted in unusual sexual practices between consenting adults being separated from Paraphilic Disorders. Susan has also conducted several surveys documenting discrimination and violence against BDSM practitioners as well as consent practices and attitudes. Her research has been published in the Archives of Sexual Behavior, Journal of Sexual Medicine, Journal of Behavioral Health Services & Research, International Journal of Social Psychiatry, and Journal of Homosexuality.
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VIDEO CHAT: Unisys Pegacorn (Pony) w/ Nicholas Tanek

 

Unisys was born in New Ulm, Minnesota and now lives in Albuquerque, New Mexico. He enjoys his job working as a bouncer at one of the most popular nightclubs in downtown Albuquerque. Unisys enjoys being a fetish model and amateur photographer. He says, “I wasn’t involved with BDSM and kink until my 30s and loved it. I have always had a great love for horses. They are so powerful and majestic but it wasn’t until DOMCON LA 2017 when I attended my first pony show and was given my latex pony hood that I fully became Unisys J. Pegacorn; thanks to the beautiful and talented Elaina De La Mer of PEP.

Here, Unisys Pegacorn sits down for a video interview with Nicholas Tanek.

https://youtu.be/0MUGMHUC-DY

 

 

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