People Are The Enemy Podcast w/ Andy Mascola – Guest Nicholas Tanek

Nicholas Tanek (owner of YourKinkyFriends and author of the books Your Kinky Friends, The Coolest Way To Kill Yourself, and Chipped Black Nail Polish) sits down to talk with Andy Mascola for the PEOPLE ARE THE ENEMY PODCAST.

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Our Professional Dominatrix Friends Part III by Nicholas Tanek

 

Being a professional Dominatrix is a beautifully unique profession but also hard work. Here at YKF, we speak to Pro Dommes all the time. Especially in these politically turbulent times (FOSTA/SESTA), YKF wants to celebrate the Professional Dominatrix and give readers insight into their lifestyle. I decided to do part III of the series.

So, I asked several of my Professional Dominatrix friends some questions, and here are their answers…

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Living M/s (Master/slave) 24/7 by Master Bear

The Rule of Three – Part One

The biggest mistake that I see most new Masters make is having an extensive list of things that they want their slave to do. New Masters often times put unnecessary pressure on themselves by expecting everything all at once. Having a huge list in the beginning creates a couple of different issues.

First off, understand that if you as a Master cannot remember all of the things that you are requesting of your slave then why should your slave remember?  Secondly, this creates an unrealistic expectation on both you as well as your slave as to what can be realistically achieved in the early days of your dynamic. Slaves want to excel, they want to give, and they want to be the best they can for the Masters that they love. So set them and you up for success.

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VIDEO CHAT: Lady Absinthe w/ Nicholas Tanek

Lady Absinthe is a fetish model, Mistress, and cam girl. She specializes in Anal Training, Bondage, Discipline, Domination, Jerk-off Instruction, Orgasm Denial, Chastity Training, Submission, Tit/Nipple Torture, Whips, Condoms, Gags & Blindfolds, Humiliation, Masks, Rubber / Latex / PVC, Smoking, Foot Fetish, Outfit, Tattoos, FinDom.

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VIDEO CHAT: Dominatrix V (House Of V) w/ Nicholas Tanek

Dominatrix V is the founder/owner of The House Of V Fetish Studio. She is a professional Dominatrix, Queer Femme kink performer, Fetish Barberette and Owner of The Fluffy Boudoir Sissies and cross dressing salon.

Nicholas Tanek has a video chat with her.

 

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VIDEO CHAT: Dr. Gloria Brame w/ Nicholas Tanek

Award-winning sex therapist, pioneering sexologist, and best-selling author, Dr. Gloria Brame has been a legendary figure in the world of BDSM since publishing her classic text, Different Loving, in 1993. A former English professor, Gloria’s began researching, writing, and erotically exploring radical sex and fluid relationships in the early 1980s. Gloria founded the first online BDSM support group on Compuserve in 1987 and has not ceased since then to advance the cause of sexual progress and to help destroy the anti-sex myths and bigotries that destroy human lives through her books, blogs, and projects.
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VIDEO CHAT: Master Bear and slave eve w/ Nicholas Tanek

Master Bear and slave eve are a dynamic BDSM couple who live the Master/slave dynamic. They are very active in the kink community.

 

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VIDEO CHAT: Ivory Mistress Jae w/ Nicholas Tanek

IM Jae is an internationally recognized sex educator and coach who specializes in kinky sex. Human sexuality has fascinated her as long as she can remember. Her mother teased her that she came out of the womb boy-crazy and curious about everything to do with sex! This might have a little something to do with the fact that she grew up listening to Howard Stern and watching episodes of Benny Hill. At 17 she bought a copy of The Kama Sutra and combed through it for hours. In college, IM Jae wrote her senior honors project on sex ethics, a first for the relatively conservative Philosophy Department.

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VIDEO CHAT: Peter Tupper (author) w/ Nicholas Tanek

Peter Tupper’s writing has appeared in Wired magazine, the Canadian Medical
Association Journal, the Globe and Mail, the Utne Reader and www.TheTyee.ca.  He is a co-founder of Metro Vancouver Kink, a non-profit BDSM community organization in Vancouver, BC, and remains active in the BDSM scene. He has researched and blogged about the history of consensual sadomasochism since 2005, and has presented at The Art of Loving in Vancouver, BC, the Center for Sex Positive Culture in Seattle, WA, and the 2012, 2013 and 2016 Master-slave Conferences. He has also been a guest on Graydancer’s Ropecast, the Masocast, Jack Rinella’s Leathercast, Erotic Awakening and the People of Kink podcasts. He edited and contributed to Our Lives, Our History: Consensual Master/slave relationships from ancient times to the 21st century (2016).