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VIDEO CHAT: Alace Amory with Nicholas Tanek

Alace Amory has been into different aspects of the lifestyle for as long as she can remember.  She enjoys cuckolding, general kink, polyamory, lezdom, FLRs and BDSM.  She is a fetish clip producer, a non-nude performer, cam tease, fetish session enthusiast, and trains long term subs. Some things she incorporates into her playtime are authentic energy exchanges, sensual energy play, & connection building for bonding.

Nicholas Tanek sits down and has a video chat with her.

 

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VIDEO CHAT: Mistress Alexxxia with Nicholas Tanek

Mistress Alexxxia is a central New York-based Dominatrix, published model, and artist. She has only been in the Domme role since May of 2017 but has been involved in the kink world since late 2011. Her specialties include financial domination, cuckolding, ass worship, ritual roleplay, and CBT (cock and ball torture).

Alexxxia was always one with a clever brain and never ending imagination, and spent most of her life as the artistic type who was often kicked around. Now, having found her inner voice and power, she has been making up for lost time, channeling it all into destroying men’s egos with a special sadistic flair.

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BDSM On A Budget: YKF Interviewee Edition (part three) #ThriftyKinkThursday

by Miss_Melissa_

The thrifty kink suggestions from the wonderful people that Nicholas has interviewed are as varied and awesome as they are! This week’s thrifty spotlight includes great suggestions from Mistress Genevieve, dungeon proprietress and educator; Susan Wright, founder of the National Coalition for Sexual Freedom; and Goddess Nyx, artist, fetish model and experience creator.

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Living M/s 24/7: Punishment by Master Bear

 

There are many things that separate Masters from each other and philosophies on punishment is one of the biggest. The social expectation is that Masters are emotionally removed and deliver harsh physical punishment at the drop of the hat. The worse the punishment the more “Masterly” the Master is considered.  On the other side a slave that receives this type of punishment is supposed to glow and excel in its presence.

I suppose that works for some people. It however, does not work for me.

Over the last 17 years, I have developed a few rules about punishment:

  • It cannot take any of my time, effort, or energy.
  • It must redirect teach, explain, reinforce, and ultimately create a behavioral change.
  • It cannot make me feel icky.

Let us look at each one.

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VIDEO CHAT:Goddess Samantha Muscle w/ Nicholas Tanek

Goddess Samantha is a powerful Dominant character and a rock hard 36D-24-36 muscular, yet feminine body.  She is a professional Dominatrix used to controlling men both psychologically and physically.
Nicholas Tanek sits down and has a chat with her.

VIDEO CHAT: Ms. Marabelle Blue (Kink~E Magazine) w/ Nicholas Tanek

Ms. Marabelle Blue is the Owner and Editor in Chief of Kink~E Magazine, creating the number one Fetish and Alternative Lifestyle publication in New York City.  

She has also published part one of her A Trilogy of Affairs Series, “An Illegal Affair” which can be.

She sits down with Nicholas Tanek for a video chat.

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VIDEO CHAT: Chayse Rose w/ Nicholas Tanek

Chayse Rose is an awkwardly charming kinky seductress, a professional escort, Professional Pervert, and Princess. She is known for the kinky “girlfriend experience.”

Nicholas Tanek sits down and interviews her.

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VIDEO CHAT: Mistress Joi w/ Nicholas Tanek

Mistress Joi is a Pro Domme, Performer, Model, Kinky Artist and Fetish Film Actress. Lifestyle and Pro with years experience on Screen, Print, Live Performances and Private Sessions she can take your fantasy to a new high and your depravity to a new low. Enticing and  bewitching Mistress Joi will put you under a spell. A sensual Sadist who wants to awaken your inner Masochist, she will push your limits and show you the Magic in BDSM.

 

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Thrifty Kink Thursday: Sex Stuff Storage

by Miss Melissa AND TangledBlue

The beautiful Miss Melissa and I are kinksters. I know this shocks our faithful readers because we do come off as chaste demure women who blush at the mention of the word “tinkle.”  But in reality, we are huge fans of the weird things that make our loins go buzzy. We think one of the best things about kink is all the toys. If you have begun your own adventure in exploring ideas behind bondage, power play, pet play, and other exciting endeavors, you will start to collect STUFF. We decided to put our pretty little heads together and offer Our Kinky Friends advice on how to manage all the glorious stuff of kink.

You will see people lay out their collections like this and people swoon. Most humans can’t leave their collections out on the coffee table like a book on National Parks.

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Heroes of the Kink Community Part IV by Nicholas Tanek

The kink community has wonderful people who educate and help other kinky people. Sometimes, it is through podcasts. Other times, it is through groups or books. Here at YKF, we know many heroes in the BDSM/kink community. I asked our friends a couple questions and here are their answers.

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