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Our Kinky Friends Discuss the Sexuality of HALLOWEEN Costumes by Nicholas Tanek

I love Halloween. The atmosphere of delightfully creepy things is the perfect backdrop for wicked fun.  Now, people are allowed to dress up any time of year.  If I want to dress as Batman on the fourth of July, I will put on a mask and run around my house saving the houseplants.   I may want to be a sissy maid on a Tuesday night so I put on my French maid outfit and let my Domme fuck me with a strap-on dildo.  I can do this any day of the year, but the Halloween season makes dressing up magical.

It feels so good to put on a costume and be someone different for a little while. Adults have the option to add the spin of sex appeal to their tricks and treats.  Normally shy people may be strutting around in corsets and thongs and the energy is infectious.  The classic sexy costumes like French maid, sexy nurse, or Morticia from The Addams Family are always a welcome sight, but the creative aspect of Halloween makes it extra exciting.  I never know what sexed up concoction I will see at a dungeon party, Wal-Mart, or tagging along for trick or treating. I may see John Snow from Game of Thrones looking hot in a pair of fishnets with a little cleavage showing or Bert and Ernie in ball gags and leather.  Adults are sexual beings and Halloween is the perfect holiday to let sexual creativity come out to play.

The sexuality of Halloween costumes has always intrigued me. So, I asked my kinky friends about how outfits affect and change their sex lives.

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VIDEO CHAT: Antique Deb from Slave Nation Radio with Nicholas Tanek

Antique Deb is the host of Slave Nation Radio on Beaten Path Network. She considers herself a lifestyle slave and has her own wonderful radio show.

Nicholas Tanek sits down and has a video chat with her.

VIDEO CHAT: Mercy West with Nicholas Tanek

Mercy West is a companion, BDSM practitioner, adult actor, and genuinely kinky person. Just a queer jumble of non-binary sensuality and empathy residing in Portland Oregon. She enjoys exotic cuisine, vintage erotica, retro fashion, marijuana, as well as all things sex-positive and am currently working on her new membership site.

Nicholas Tanek sits down and has a video chat with her.

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VIDEO CHAT: Sir Mondo with Nicholas Tanek

Sir Mondo is a professional master who has now been in the lifestyle for nearly 8 years. His life journey has shaped him to be very versatile and rather unique. It has been stated that his style is the perfect blend of sensation and pain, where it is unknown where pleasure stops and suffering begins. His touch is highly energetic, but it can be either extremely seductive or very unnerving. His style of sensation and impact is delivered in a beautiful way. A true art form.

This playful demon has a way of adapting to the needs of the subject at hand; seeing every person as a blank canvas to be painted with the desires of the individual. As playful as this Dom can be, he can be just as equally cruel in more ways than one. Definitely not an experience to overlook.

Some of his services offered are impact play, sensual, sensation, sensory deprivation, sissy training, and more.

Nicholas Tanek sits down and has a video chat with him.

 

Our Kinky Friends Write: CNC Fantasy by SassyWitch666

I’ve always loved to read and make up stories in my head. Partly I think it’s because it gave me something to do while I was in the hospital as a kid. I couldn’t really go out and play so I had to do something to pass the time and TV would get boring. It’s not like today where kids have all these electronic games and cell phones to help pass the time.

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VIDEO CHAT: Maddie Royce w/ Nicholas Tanek

Maddie Royce is a professional online Domme. Although she spent 5+ years as a professional Dominatrix, she is now only an online Domme who makes kinky clips about cuckolding, humiliation, sissification, and roleplaying.

Nicholas Tanek sits down and has a video chat with her.

 

Caricatures in BDSM by Master Bear

 It is not uncommon for people coming into BDSM to use caricatures as a model on how to act until they figure themselves out. These caricatures are sometimes based on our limited books/movies and extensive porn.  Other times they are based on a preconceived notion of how someone with “that identity” would act. In the beginning of finding your identity having a caricature can be empowering. It can give you an idea into who you want to be.  I remember my caricature as a new Dominant. The caricature I assumed was quiet, calm, and hyper vigilant.  It took so much energy that I couldn’t sustain it outside of the public BDSM space, but that is when I felt I needed it.

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BDSM On A Budget: YKF Interviewee Edition (part four) #ThriftyKinkThursday

by Miss_Melissa_

The inspiring suggestions from Nicholas’s interviewees continue to impress me. This week’s thrifty spotlight includes tips from Alex Andrews, sex worker alumnus and activist; Lady Remedy Ann, professional Mistress; Jacqi Kill, lead singer of THE BAD DRUGS and fetish entertainer; and Satin Jade, satin fetishist.

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Our Kinky Submissive Friends by Nicholas Tanek

Being submissive is an art form that is cultivated and enhanced through practice and patience. Submissive kinksters offer a specific kind of trust that is not easy to find and may be abused by their dominant counterparts. The openness of a submissive can be interpreted as weakness, but in fact, the ability to submit requires great strength. There are submissive friends who live the lifestyle 24/7 and there are the ones who submit just in the bedroom. Either way, submissives are a valuable part of the BDSM community. I gathered some of my favorite submissive friends, and I asked them several questions.

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VIDEO CHAT: Michelle Lacy with Nicholas Tanek

Mistress Michelle Lacy is a highly sought after professional dominatrix who resides in South Florida where she has her own personal dungeon. She is most known for her creativity and passion in creating unforgettable adventures for those who play with her. Her skills, as well as her enthusiasm in her appointments, can be found on her website MichelleLacy.com and her social media outlets. Michelle enjoys a wide range of activities. She is most known for her “creative sadism,” behavior modification, discipline, bondage, lengthy captivity, as well as her love of slave-training, as she holds an entire weekend event called The Order Of Indomitus which is dedicated to just that!
Mistress Michelle loves to travel all along the East coast and even has an additional personal studio in Long Island, NY. She loves attending events, teaching classes, and assisting in spreading awareness and education of BDSM. Despite her shiny catsuits and fierce whips, Michelle is one of the most approachable and down to earth women in the industry who cares very much for the goals and the safety of the people she sees.

Nicholas Tanek sits down and has a video chat with her.

NOTE: The audio gets a little messed up on my end but stick with it, Michelle Lacy does most of the talking and she’s amazing!