VIDEO CHAT: Goddess Sikha (live from India)

“BDSM is a healing lifestyle for me.”

Goddess Sikha is a Dominatrix in Calcutta, India. The Sweet Dominatrix talks about how India recently legalized sex work. We also discuss gender dynamics, crossdressing in India, rope, golden showers, her love of strap-ons, forest play, Wonder Woman, Rasgulla, and the spiritual beauty of submitting to a woman.

“Humanity is the ultimate religion.”

NOTE: Her sound goes out in the end. We were done anyway. We are already planning on doing more shows. Stay tuned…

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VIDEO CHAT: Queen Ana Algos w/ Nicholas Tanek

“I want to beat up all of the nuts and berries.”

Queen Ana Algos is a legendary Dominatrix and educator from Sanctuary LAX. We discuss CBT, consensual torture, BDSM classes, hosting events, sissification, massaging, POC, making people sound themselves with ginger, and impact play by smacking people with rubber chickens.
“I’m big into creative kink.”
IMPORTANT NOTE: There are two videos. Due to Hurricane Ida (2021), we lost power and continued the interview 2 days later.

Due to Hurricaine Ana, we got cut off but continued 2 days later. Here is part 2:

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VIDEO CHAT: Dirty Lola with Nicholas Tanek

Dirty Lola is a storyteller, edutainer, sex educator, Dildo Slinger, and the creator and host of the live sex Q&A / variety show and podcast Sex Ed A Go-Go. During the last six years, she has shared her distinctive brand of kickass body and sex-positivity and her personal journey into the kink and poly lifestyles on and off stage.

Nicholas Tanek sits down with her for a video chat.

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VIDEO CHAT: Bex Caputo (BexTalksSex & Dildorks) w/ Nicholas Tanek

Bex Caputo is a sex educator, blogger, speaker, podcaster, and dildo peddler. They’ve been a proud and undeniable kinkster ever since they insisted on being served their meals in a dog bowl at the age of 8, (and even before that, probably). They’re a Virgo,1 a Hufflepuff, a pup, and a nonbinary queerdo who grew up into the pop punk skater boy they had a crush on in high school.

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HEROES OF THE KINK COMMUNITY Part 1

by Nicholas Tanek

Heroes save lives and the kink community saved mine. My life was a mess. I met some wonderful people who have been kind and helpful throughout my journey within the kink community. This is only part one in a series about people who I truly think are heroes in the kink community.

So, I talked to some of my kinky heroes and asked them questions about giving back to the community. Here are their answers.

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