Our Kinky Friends Write: CNC Fantasy by SassyWitch666

I’ve always loved to read and make up stories in my head. Partly I think it’s because it gave me something to do while I was in the hospital as a kid. I couldn’t really go out and play so I had to do something to pass the time and TV would get boring. It’s not like today where kids have all these electronic games and cell phones to help pass the time.

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Our Financial Dominatrix (Findom) Friends by Nicholas Tanek

Money is power. It’s as simple as that. If you give it or if you receive it, there is a power exchange. Findom (or Financial Dommes) basically make a living using their sexuality to have people give them money. Sometimes, it’s sadistic and humiliating. Other times, it’s more of a situation where the client wants to spoil and make the financial Dominatrix happy. Either way, this is a popular but misunderstood fetish. So, I asked some of my FinDom friends some questions and here are their answers.

 

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VIDEO CHAT: Jerome Stuart Nichols (The Butters Co.) with Nicholas Tanek

Jerome Stuart Nichols is the proprietor  The Butters: Hygienics Company.  They make powerful botanical creations to streamline your routines and elevate your rituals. We talk lube, holistic sexuality, pin-up boys, and puppy play.
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VIDEO CHAT: Miztress Tia with Nicholas Tanek

Miztress Tia is a Professional Dominatrix located on the East Coast of Canada.  She has been described as evil and mean, yet most who come to know her find her warm and empathetic once they get past her intimidating persona.  Her specialty is impact play however she does offer other services that can be found on her website Miztresstia.com.  She can also be found on Twitter and Fetlife under the same name.
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VIDEO CHAT: Maddie Royce w/ Nicholas Tanek

Maddie Royce is a professional online Domme. Although she spent 5+ years as a professional Dominatrix, she is now only an online Domme who makes kinky clips about cuckolding, humiliation, sissification, and roleplaying.

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Caricatures in BDSM by Master Bear

 It is not uncommon for people coming into BDSM to use caricatures as a model on how to act until they figure themselves out. These caricatures are sometimes based on our limited books/movies and extensive porn.  Other times they are based on a preconceived notion of how someone with “that identity” would act. In the beginning of finding your identity having a caricature can be empowering. It can give you an idea into who you want to be.  I remember my caricature as a new Dominant. The caricature I assumed was quiet, calm, and hyper vigilant.  It took so much energy that I couldn’t sustain it outside of the public BDSM space, but that is when I felt I needed it.

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VIDEO CHAT: Bailey Love with Nicholas Tanek

Bailey Love is a trans sissy porn star who works for  THE SISSY INSTITUTE by Tia Tizzianni, who performs a transformation service for crossdressers.

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Our Kinky Friends Write: This Boy is Her Girl by Allison K. Atwood

This is not what you’d call a traditional story with a beginning, middle, and end. It has none of those things. I guess it sits somewhere between pornographic fantasy and wishful thinking. It’s the tale of the person I wish I was, bonding with the person I wish I could be with. The characters are unorthodox and kinky, and yet in their own way rather conventional. The setting is nowhere, and it takes place probably never, because the world where such a relationship would be possible, for me (without the consequences I fear), may not exist. But who knows?

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VIDEO CHAT: Octavia Achten with Nicholas Tanek

Domina Octavia Achten is a professional Dominatrix, model, and fetishist who lives the lifestyle full time. She is well educated in the multi-faceted art of BDSM. Years of experience and a natural, dominant allure give the Domina a presence that intoxicates. With a keen intellect and passions for history, foreign languages and Domination, She offers an experience that is delightfully surreal. Domina Octavia Achten is well known for her skill, and her love for her work.

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