Its no secret that the BDSM world is full of wonderful toys meant to take you to the edge of ecstasy or agony, beautiful adornments for the body, and furniture to act as a stage for your kinky scene. I love it all. I love my floggers, my collars, my corsets, and my violet wand. I even find myself gazing at things I don’t think I’d ever want to try because its all so fascinating! Despite my enthusiasm, I know that my kink goes a little deeper. With me, it all starts in the brain. I’ve had brutal scenes where many toys were used, but I didn’t feel submissive. This is important to me. Contrary wise, I’ve had scenes where no toys were used, but I was so deep into subspace I was almost in tears. I won’t be able to cover everything as there is no end to what you can do, but I hope what I can cover will spark your kinky imagination. A mental tool I love so much is obedience training.
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Punishment (M/s Relationship) – Part 2 of 2 by Master Bear
Punishment part two of two
by Master Bear
I am against corporal punishment, but there are more than personal reasons why. More often than not, I have seen abuse and resentment be the byproducts of corporal punishment. I have three examples to share.
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VIDEO CHAT: MsMadyson with Nicholas Tanek
Mistress MsMadyson A. DeLaRough, but you can call her MsMadyson {do note that it is big M little “s” big M no space. } It’s that way for a reason which happens to be that is how she wants it… She has known about the lifestyle in 1988, got in 1991 & became a Pro Dom in 2000. She does what she loves. Her whole family knows & she does her personal best to not hide from them or the people she chooses to love.
Nicholas Tanek sits down and hast a video chat with her.
VIDEO CHAT: Alace Amory with Nicholas Tanek
Alace Amory has been into different aspects of the lifestyle for as long as she can remember. She enjoys cuckolding, general kink, polyamory, lezdom, FLRs and BDSM. She is a fetish clip producer, a non-nude performer, cam tease, fetish session enthusiast, and trains long term subs. Some things she incorporates into her playtime are authentic energy exchanges, sensual energy play, & connection building for bonding.
Nicholas Tanek sits down and has a video chat with her.
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VIDEO CHAT: Mistress Alexxxia with Nicholas Tanek
Mistress Alexxxia is a central New York-based Dominatrix, published model, and artist. She has only been in the Domme role since May of 2017 but has been involved in the kink world since late 2011. Her specialties include financial domination, cuckolding, ass worship, ritual roleplay, and CBT (cock and ball torture).
Alexxxia was always one with a clever brain and never ending imagination, and spent most of her life as the artistic type who was often kicked around. Now, having found her inner voice and power, she has been making up for lost time, channeling it all into destroying men’s egos with a special sadistic flair.
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BDSM On A Budget: YKF Interviewee Edition (part three) #ThriftyKinkThursday
by Miss_Melissa_
The thrifty kink suggestions from the wonderful people that Nicholas has interviewed are as varied and awesome as they are! This week’s thrifty spotlight includes great suggestions from Mistress Genevieve, dungeon proprietress and educator; Susan Wright, founder of the National Coalition for Sexual Freedom; and Goddess Nyx, artist, fetish model and experience creator.
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Living M/s 24/7: Punishment by Master Bear
There are many things that separate Masters from each other and philosophies on punishment is one of the biggest. The social expectation is that Masters are emotionally removed and deliver harsh physical punishment at the drop of the hat. The worse the punishment the more “Masterly” the Master is considered. On the other side a slave that receives this type of punishment is supposed to glow and excel in its presence.
I suppose that works for some people. It however, does not work for me.
Over the last 17 years, I have developed a few rules about punishment:
- It cannot take any of my time, effort, or energy.
- It must redirect teach, explain, reinforce, and ultimately create a behavioral change.
- It cannot make me feel icky.
Let us look at each one.
VIDEO CHAT:Goddess Samantha Muscle w/ Nicholas Tanek
Goddess Samantha is a powerful Dominant character and a rock hard 36D-24-36 muscular, yet feminine body. She is a professional Dominatrix used to controlling men both psychologically and physically.
Nicholas Tanek sits down and has a chat with her.
VIDEO CHAT: Ms. Marabelle Blue (Kink~E Magazine) w/ Nicholas Tanek
Ms. Marabelle Blue is the Owner and Editor in Chief of Kink~E Magazine, creating the number one Fetish and Alternative Lifestyle publication in New York City.
She has also published part one of her A Trilogy of Affairs Series, “An Illegal Affair” which can be.
She sits down with Nicholas Tanek for a video chat.
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VIDEO CHAT: Chayse Rose w/ Nicholas Tanek
Chayse Rose is an awkwardly charming kinky seductress, a professional escort, Professional Pervert, and Princess. She is known for the kinky “girlfriend experience.”
Nicholas Tanek sits down and interviews her.