Nicco Noire & Nicholas Tanek talk about how kink scams give the community a bad name. We address scams in the BDSM/kink community, ABDL community, sissy community, and the fraud of toxic masculinity.
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YKF SUNDAYS: 5.12.2024 w/ Miss Kaz B, Nicco Noire & Nicholas Tanek
“I will laugh at you crying.”
Miss Kaz B (UK) and Nicco Noire (Texas, USA) take this Mother’s Day 2024 to talk about CBT, having drinks with mum, chastity help, and what BDSM/kink essentials they would take on the Ark if the world gets flooded.
“Getting my house cleaned while getting paid for it is the best.”
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YKF: Ariel Anderssen – 5.2023 w/ Nicholas Tanek
“Writing about my life felt more exposing than being naked on camera.”
Ariel Anderssen is the author of “Playing To Lose: How a Jehovah’s Witness Became a Submissive BDSM Model.” We discuss the romance of being submissive, fetish modeling, finding a suitable photographer, emancipating oneself from religion, the protection of Doms, overcoming the shame of porn, and creating homemade corsets. Did she turn a particle physicist into a bondage photographer?
“The word resolution this year is HONESTY”
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YKF: Goddess Narcissa – 4.2024 w/ Nicholas Tanek (live from Mischief Manor)
“I enjoy hurting people, but harming someone is completely different.”
Goddess Narcissa is a professional/lifestyle Domme, founder of Mercy Whips, fetish model, and chef. We talk about the art of whipping, an all-Asian BDSM dungeon, outlaw fetish photography, bottom-led learning, finding a dependable whip bottom, and retaliating against attackers with a huge kitchen knife.
“When Narcissa does something, she does it until she gets to the marrow.”
P.S. Goddess Narcissa would like to point out that Dave is not a stalker, but a loyal sub.
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YKF VIDEO: Princess Kaz – 3.2024 w/ Nicholas Tanek
“I’ll chain you to the radiator in my bathroom as I luxuriate.”
Princess Kaz B from Wiltshire (UK) is back to discuss her upcoming documentary, her books (Confessions of a Dominatrix), erotic poetry, chastity teasing, the UK kink scene, transexual sex dolls, sissification, and having subs suck mud off of her toes.
“I think we are all a little sadistic sometimes.”
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YKF VIDEO: The Commandant – 2.2024 w/ Nicholas Tanek
“I’m a sadist, not an asshole.”
The Commandant, known for being KINKY GOOGLE, is a traveling kink educator and lifestyle Dominatrix from Texas. We talk about sissification vs. feminization, how kink saved our lives, a women-led queer-inclusive space, the sex life of physicists, wanting to run an ethical whorehouse, Depeche Mode for dungeons, the cum receptacle competition, and which Wu-Tang Clan song is best to flog to.
“Any hole’s the goal.”
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VIDEO CHAT: Ezra (Ask Ezra) -1.2024 w/ Nicholas Tanek
“I want my sex to hurt a little bit… so what?”
Sir Ezra of Ask Ezra returns to talk about his new book The Path Through. We discuss being a professional male Dom, poetry, romance, healing, grief, body degradation, Jack Kerouac, sexting, and oral sex with hot sauce.
“Be a good houseguest to your feelings.”
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VIDEO CHAT: Lilyann Laurent – 1.2024 w/ Nicholas Tanek
“I had my rope top tie me to a tree next to a lake with lilipads.”
Lilyann Laurent is the author of “Vulpes Niveus”. She is also a film director, singer-songwriter, spirituality influencer, and lifestyle brand designer. We discuss age-gap romance with older men, erotic fiction, poetry, the bond of rope/shibari, and primal play.
“There aren’t enough bisexual women represented in media.”
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Mischief Manor: Real Random Quotes
Conversations with kinky people inspire us. Since the opening night in 2022, I began collecting real random quotes that I overhear in passing while at Mischief Manor, my local BDSM kink dungeon run by the legendary Mistress Schari. The rule of the game is that people must consent to contribute these quotes. Second, they are actual quotes that must be random, but in passing. The third rule is never to attribute a quote to a person. Part of the fun is remembering who said it (or who you think would have said it).
“I want weird people to meet other weird people.”
VIDEO CHAT: Sera Miles (PEPlove) – 9.2023 w/ Nicholas Tanek
“People are going to have an experience of feeling secure while playing out the fetishes they are ashamed of.”
The legendary Sera Miles of PEPLove is retiring and all the ladies came together to say thank you to this magnificent woman. We also discuss phone sex, knife play, blood play, sissification, AI in sex work, and how kinky people must communicate. So, let’s talk!
“The first step to make everything better is decriminalization.”
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