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YKF: Goddess Narcissa – 4.2024 w/ Nicholas Tanek (live from Mischief Manor)

“I enjoy hurting people, but harming someone is completely different.”

Goddess Narcissa is a professional/lifestyle Domme, founder of Mercy Whips, fetish model, and chef. We talk about the art of whipping, an all-Asian BDSM dungeon, outlaw fetish photography, bottom-led learning, finding a dependable whip bottom, and retaliating against attackers with a huge kitchen knife.

“When Narcissa does something, she does it until she gets to the marrow.”

P.S. Goddess Narcissa would like to point out that Dave is not a stalker, but a loyal sub.

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YKF: Daisy Chains – 4.2024 w/ Nicholas Tanek

“Bring the orgasm rates up and the STD rates down.”

Daisy Chains is a professional Dominatrix from Chicago. We talk about Peplove taboo phone sex, kink events, sissification, ABDL play, latex, leather, medical play, chastity, the Chicago rave scene, scat candy bars, her toilet slave, her piss baby, and how she’s going to squirt on the top of every mountaintop.

“I like being so cute and terrifying at the same time.”

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YKF Video: Elizabeth Hendrick (EXODAI) – 4.2024 w/ Nicholas Tanek

“I was craving torture.”

Elizabeth Hendrick, author of EXODAI talks about her experiences of sexual torture in Japan, writing/promoting her book, being waterboarded with urine, huge electrical butt plugs, sinister gas masks, straight women who lead lesbians on, and being made to walk around on a stone floor on her kneecaps.

“The submissive is there for the Dom. The masochists are there for themselves“

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YKF CHAT: Dirk Hooper – 3.2024 w/ Nicholas Tanek

“Drown out the ignorance with intelligence.”

Dirk Hooper talks about the re-release of his book DOMINATRIX BOSS (by Asher Lake). We talk about how pen names are like role play, comics, art, sleazy boudoir photographers, Catwoman, Exit to Eden, Femdom fiction, bad erotica, how to stop dating vanilla, indie publishing, the Domme deficit, and how he has never been pegged. What does that mean? Find out…

“Kink allowed me to be better.”

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YKF CHAT: Leah Piper – 3.2024 w/ Nicholas Tanek

“Anal, anal, and more anal. Your ass is chakra #1”

Leah Piper is the host of Sex Reimagined Podcast, founder of More Love Works, and an advocate of tantra anal sex. We talk about being a vulva owner, clitoral orgasms, reaching the male g-spot, exploring new fetishes, soft-ons on clits, tantra sex, her Dominatrix training, and how pursuing anal sex is badass.

“Did I get double penetrated?”

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YKF VIDEO: Princess Kaz – 3.2024 w/ Nicholas Tanek

“I’ll chain you to the radiator in my bathroom as I luxuriate.”

Princess Kaz B from Wiltshire (UK) is back to discuss her upcoming documentary, her books (Confessions of a Dominatrix), erotic poetry, chastity teasing, the UK kink scene, transexual sex dolls, sissification, and having subs suck mud off of her toes.

“I think we are all a little sadistic sometimes.”

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Lost episode: Christal Hart Vison 7.2022 w/ Nicholas Tanek

Lost episode from 7.2022:

“Make friends with your shame.”

Christal Hart Vison is a Sex Coach Sexual Shaminista. We discuss erotic blueprints, Mistress Jaiya, being a sexual shadow, learning the language of other’s bodies, finding your erotic “oneness,” and healing sexual incompatibility.

“There is a Dominatrix birthing through me.”

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YKF CHAT: Sex Ed With Tim (Tim Lagman) – 3.2024 w/ Nicholas Tanek

“There are some really tight holes out there.”

Tim Lagman (host of Sex Ed with Tim podcast) is a sex therapist and a semi-retired male escort. We discuss having thousands of lovers, why escorts should not charge per orgasm, the film “Good Luck To You Leo Grande,” using grapes for scat play, and New York City gays vs. Los Angeles gays.

“People who embrace their sluttiness are more on top of their health than the average person.”

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YKF VIDEO: Director Jezebelle – 3.2024 w/ Nicholas Tanek

“In my collar, I am free.”

Director Jez (founder of K!nkify! and Waxing Moon Wicks) reads Nicholas Tanek’s tarot card and talks about wax play, candles, being submissive while having a house boy, the plateau of awesomeness, leather witching, scent training, impact play, how BDSM/kink saved her from alcohol, and human sacrifice roleplay.

“Now, I’m a sparkling masochist.”

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YKF VIDEO: Miss CatastroV – 3.2024 w/ Nicholas Tanek

“I love hurting people… consensually.”

Miss CatastroV is a lifestyle & commercial Dominatrix in the Netherlands who lives a TPE (total power exchange) and female-led relationship with her live-in submissive. We discuss Amsterdam, heels, love of leather, breath control, OWK (Other World Kingdom), and how she loves her dirty sluts as much as her trained sissy maids.

“I love to crawl into the mind of the submissive.”

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