Category: Article

#SoSS

 

by Kitt Wolf

Social media is awesome, but things like shadowbanning silence voices of those who are simply trying to share themselves.  I understand that there are malicious cretins in the world who want to use social media for their own agenda, but the vast majority of sexbloggers want to spread a message for the good of the greater kink community.  

This is YKF’s first #SOSS (Share our Shit Saturday) and I wanted to give a shoutout to some of the great people out there trying to build community in the kink world.  

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Our BDSM Dungeon Friends by Nicholas Tanek

BDSM dungeons are wonderful places where people can express their kinks. Some include professional Dommes while others can be a party or hang out space for kinky people. Many are both. The various BDSM equipment and themes create a completely unique and fulfilling atmosphere that many kinky people do not have in their bedrooms. Of course, there are many things involved with running dungeons like upkeep, cleaning, insurance, and legal issues. So, I asked our BDSM Dungeon friends about owning or working in a BDSM dungeon.

Here are their answers…

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#Thrifty Kink Thursday: Chilly Willy

Thrifty Kinksters.  Ten Dollars. Super Fun.  

by Dork-A-Dilly

BDSM calls to many people but willing kinksters can be inhibited by the cost of the tools.  It is well worth it to invest in high quality BDSM toys, but sometimes you want to play around with an idea before committing your funds.  Leather floggers, ball gags, and latex wear can really break the bank. Your Kinky Friends decided to challenge ourselves to create experiences that cost less than ten bucks. We will use traditional BSDM ideas plus our imagination and ingenuity to help you get the most bang for your buck. 

As always…use common sense when playing and put safety first!

This is our sixth entry for #ThriftyKinkyThursday and it involves ice play.  Let’s make a Chilly Willy!

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Kink, Catholicism, and Consequences by Soundless Switch

 

by Soundless Switch

Our Kinky Friend, Soundless Switch, is a newcomer to the Discord chat. We often discuss beliefs and religion in the chat group, and our Kinky Friends ascribe to a wide variety of theologies.  Soundless Switch is currently in graduate school and is new to the kink world. He enjoys role playing and serves as a Dom and a sub in his personal life. This is his first article for YKF.

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Beat on the Brat: Spanking Tools by Tangled Blue

by Tangled Blue

Impact play is popular with BDSM enthusiasts, and spanking is often the first experience people have with domination and submission.  It’s easy to do. All you need is a hand and a willing butt and you are in business.

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#ThriftyKinkThursday: Back to School

Thrifty Kinksters.  Ten Dollars. Super Fun.  

by Miss_Melissa_

 

BDSM calls to many people but willing kinksters can be inhibited by the cost of the tools. It is well worth it to invest in high quality BDSM toys, but sometimes you want to play around with an idea before committing your funds.  Leather floggers, ball gags, and latex wear can really break the bank. Your Kinky Friends decided to challenge ourselves to create experiences that cost less than ten bucks. We will use traditional BSDM ideas and use our imaginations and ingenuity to help you get the most bang for your buck. 

As always…use common sense when playing and put safety first!

This is our fifth entry for our Thrifty Kink series: Back to School.

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VIDEO CHAT: Mistress Porcelain Midnight (Midnight Manor) w/ Nicholas Tanek

The legendary Mistress Porcelain Midnight has a video chat with Nicholas Tanek

Mistress Porcelain Midnight is an internationally published model for print, TV, movies, music videos and more. She is also the Owner and Head Mistress of The Midnight Manor. A kink facility located in San Diego. The Midnight Manor is an opulent space. It is fully equipped with the main dungeon, a medical fetish room, suspension rig, bondage bed and more. The Midnight Manor also host party’s, BDSM and Kink classes, and is available for session or party rentals.

She is also a DomCom Advisory Board Member. The industry’s largest convention for Pro, lifestyle and all things Dominatrix, BDSM, and Fetish.

IG: PorcelainMidnight

#ThriftyKinkThursday: Oui! Oui! Oui!

Thrifty Kinksters.  Ten Dollars. Super Fun.  

by SassyWitch 666

BDSM calls to many people but willing kinksters can be inhibited by the cost of the tools. Leather floggers, ball gags, and latex wear can really break the bank. Your Kinky Friends decided to challenge ourselves to create experiences that cost less than ten bucks. 

This is our fourth entry for our Thrifty Kink series:  Oui! Oui! Oui!

DISCLAIMER: Please support stores and people who sell high-end/well-made BDSM products. It’s worth it. And always… safety first!

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VIDEO CHAT: Miss Cassie (CassieLovesRope / Sanctuary Dungeon) w/ Nicholas Tanek

Miss Cassie is a Professional/Lifestyle Dominatrix, Rigger/Rope Artist, Performance Artist, Rope Bondage Instructor, BDSM Educator & Fetish Actor/Model

www.MissCassieLovesRope.com
www.SanctuaryLAX.com
www.DomConLA.com

Twitter: https://twitter.com/CassieLovesRope

NOTE: The audio and video is a little weird in the beginning, but the interview works. Don’t give up on it.

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Our Sex Shop Employee Friends by Nicholas Tanek

 

Sex shops are great! Even though many people go online to buy their sex toys and other kinky items, good brick & mortar sex shops offer much more to customers than online websites. Both serve an important purpose. People have many misconceptions of sex shops. Some think they are dirty and grimy and filled with old men jacking off in trench coats. Sure, there are some adult book stores and movie theaters where you would not want to shine a blacklight, but most sex shops have a helpful staff who can make the customer feel comfortable and educate them at the same time.

So, I asked some of our sex shop employee friends several questions. Here are their answers.

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