by Miss_Melissa_
The inspiring suggestions from Nicholas’s interviewees continue to impress me. This week’s thrifty spotlight includes tips from Alex Andrews, sex worker alumnus and activist; Lady Remedy Ann, professional Mistress; Jacqi Kill, lead singer of THE BAD DRUGS and fetish entertainer; and Satin Jade, satin fetishist.
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Being submissive is an art form that is cultivated and enhanced through practice and patience. Submissive kinksters offer a specific kind of trust that is not easy to find and may be abused by their dominant counterparts. The openness of a submissive can be interpreted as weakness, but in fact, the ability to submit requires great strength. There are submissive friends who live the lifestyle 24/7 and there are the ones who submit just in the bedroom. Either way, submissives are a valuable part of the BDSM community. I gathered some of my favorite submissive friends, and I asked them several questions.
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Mistress Michelle Lacy is a highly sought after professional dominatrix who resides in South Florida where she has her own personal dungeon. She is most known for her creativity and passion in creating unforgettable adventures for those who play with her. Her skills, as well as her enthusiasm in her appointments, can be found on her website MichelleLacy.com and her social media outlets. Michelle enjoys a wide range of activities. She is most known for her “creative sadism,” behavior modification, discipline, bondage, lengthy captivity, as well as her love of slave-training, as she holds an entire weekend event called The Order Of Indomitus which is dedicated to just that!
Mistress Michelle loves to travel all along the East coast and even has an additional personal studio in Long Island, NY. She loves attending events, teaching classes, and assisting in spreading awareness and education of BDSM. Despite her shiny catsuits and fierce whips, Michelle is one of the most approachable and down to earth women in the industry who cares very much for the goals and the safety of the people she sees.
Nicholas Tanek sits down and has a video chat with her.
NOTE: The audio gets a little messed up on my end but stick with it, Michelle Lacy does most of the talking and she’s amazing!
The power of creativity mixed with eroticism is limitless, weird, and beautiful. Once again, I needed to reach out to my erotic kinky artist friends and ask them several questions about erotic/kinky art.
Here are their answers…
Maitresse Synthia is a professional Dominatrix who believes women are The Superior Sex. She has her own private dungeon that she called My Sanctuary and it is filled with custom-made equipment. She is into a wide variety of kinks and fetishes: Sissification, flogging, chastity, role play, medical play, etc.
Nicholas Tanek sits down and has a video chat with her.
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By TangledBlue
Toys can be a huge part of a BDSM dynamic. Some people may have a favorite item that they use for every session, but other kinksters are collectors that revel in the acquisition of toys. I fall in the collector category. I love the thrill of buying a new toy or scene enhancer. One of my favorite places to shop is /sub-shop.com/. This online store has ALL the fun normal things like handcuffs and whips plus items that tug at your imagination. For this week’s Thrifty Kink, I wanted to feature this cool store so that My Kinky Friends can get the most bang for their buck when they are shopping for new gear.
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Lauren Brim, Ph.D. is a doctor of human sexuality who is changing the conversation we have about sex. She is kinky, bi, poly and a switch. She is the author of four books and an online body of work that seeks to educate, challenge and uplift by sharing provocative, honest sexual stories and dispelling sexually suppressive myths. She is also creator of the Adult Play Mat a small, sexy mat to roll out for messy, kinky or period sex.
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TheLadyAscends is a very talented artist and pagan love witch who is a good friend of mine. She has multiple subs and participates in many kinky spiritual rituals like fake blood orgies and human sacrifices.
Nicholas Tanek sits down and has a video interview with her.
Anticipatory Service by Master Bear
As far as I am concerned, anticipatory service is the highest level of service achievable. It makes my life easier and speaks directly to my sense of Mastery. This type of service is given before asked and many times before I know what I need or want. For others anticipatory service is considered disobedience. Those Masters believe that if they did not request something then the slave should not assume it. In the assumption, the slaves think for themselves and this is not allowed.
