Tag: romance

YKF Growl: BDSM BURNOUT (w/ The Lady Lioness & Nicholas Tanek)

The Lady Lioness & Nicholas Tanek discuss BDSM BURNOUT. Kink burnout is that quiet (or crushing) feeling when the hunger fades, scenes feel like chores, time-wasters & catfish drain you dry, and even your favorite fetish starts tasting like obligation.

Important takeaways: You are not broken. Pausing isn’t failure. The community has space for rest (podcasts, online classes, vanilla hangouts with kinky friends).  Play Recovery Roulette!

Ultimate message: Change is constant. The kink ocean is vast. Someone (or something) can reignite your flame when you least expect it.

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Scottie Schneider (Ayahuasca) – 10.2025

“Ayahuasca manages you.”

Scottie Schneider is a medically retired West Point Graduate and Army Officer turned Ayahuasca plant medicine facilitator at Ocóyái, a healing retreat center and community in the Colombian jungle. We discuss 7 days of psychedelic healing in the Colombian jungle, helping veterans with polyamory, Ortega’s stinging meddles, and how we are all looking to heal.

“(Ayahuasca) Just do it.”

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Lady Masochist (aka Madame Sadist) – 9.2025

“Another fun thing to do with the balls is…”

Lady Masochist (aka Madame Sadist) & Brianhot are a lifestyle sadiomasochist switch couple who show YKF their various toys for CBT, nipple torture, ball crushing, knife play, flogging, whipping, and more. Madame Sadist tells her tale of finding her partner in love and pain.

“It felt like being f*cked from the inside.”

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GoddessOfStitchz (aka Mistress Hayley) – 8.2025

“No.. your favorite color is now pink.”

Mistress Hayley aka GoddessofStitchz is living her best life in a D/s marriage with her sissy lobster. We discuss the real-life D/s dynamic, cuckolding, chastity, social kink, misery sticks, her love of crocheting, and sissifying her husband in pink.

“I’m not looking for Christian Grey. I AM Christian Grey.”

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YKF WEEKENDS: Dating A Dominatrix (w/ Vivian Vibes, Miztress Claudia, & Anna Valentina)

“My kinks will make your kinks cry.”

What is it like to DATE a SEX WORKER?  Vivian Vibes, Mistress Claudia, & Anna Valentina join #YKF to discuss navigating disclosure, finding compatible partners, balancing dynamics, jealousy, insecurity, and the reality of it all.

“If you are jealous or insecure, do NOT date a Dominatrix.”

 

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YKF CHAT: Leah Piper – 3.2024 w/ Nicholas Tanek

“Anal, anal, and more anal.  Your ass is chakra #1”

Leah Piper is the host of Sex Reimagined Podcast, founder of More Love Works, and an advocate of tantra anal sex. We talk about being a vulva owner, clitoral orgasms, reaching the male g-spot, exploring new fetishes, soft-ons on clits, tantra sex, her Dominatrix training, and how pursuing anal sex is badass.

“Did I get double penetrated?”

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Depeche Mode For Dungeons – Nicco Noire & The Commandant

“The longest relationship in my life was with Depeche Mode.” – Nicco Noire

Why do so many of my cool kinky friends love Depeche Mode and goth synth music? Nicco Noire & The Commandant claim the music of Depeche Mode should be played in all BDSM dungeons.

We discuss the Depeche Mode discography, the atmospheric style, drug use, romance, songs for edging, a DM tattooed woo-hah, and why “Christmas Island” is the best Depeche Mode song to flog to.

“Martin Gore is naturally a kinky person.” – The Commandant

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VIDEO CHAT: Ezra (Ask Ezra) -1.2024 w/ Nicholas Tanek

“I want my sex to hurt a little bit… so what?”

Sir Ezra of Ask Ezra returns to talk about his new book The Path Through. We discuss being a professional male Dom, poetry, romance, healing, grief, body degradation, Jack Kerouac, sexting, and oral sex with hot sauce.

“Be a good houseguest to your feelings.”

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