Category: ClubFemNJ

YKF GROWL: Briska (NJ Rope Legend/Educator)

“Power exchange is how I express my love for people.”

Briska is a legendary New Jersey rope educator and performer in the BDSM scene. She founded The Moth House, a small leather house dedicated to queer joy, community, and education. In this discussion, we explore her past experience modeling for major kink sites, including Hard Tied, Infernal Restraints, and Kink.com. She retired from modeling around 2010 to focus on tying others, creating dynamic scenes, teaching, and deepening her own rope and power exchange practices.

“Rope is an extension of myself.”

 

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Eustacia – 2.2026

“2026 is the year of showing up.”

Eustacia joins YKF for the first one-on-one episode of 2026. She’s the legendary Boston Dominatrix who’s also a certified helicopter pilot—her spirit color is traffic cone orange. We discuss the dungeon reflex, the grief of a sub’s passing, being banned from platforms, NOLA hip-hop, The Lost Boys, and attempting to re-enact Whitesnake’s “Here I Go Again” video.

“I’m still going to try and flush your head down the toilet.”

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YKF GROWL: BDSM Safety 101 w/ The Lady Lioness & Nicholas Tanek

The Lady Lioness & Nicholas Tanek strip BDSM safety down to its bones — and rebuild it with consent, negotiation, risk awareness, and intentional power exchange at the core. We talk SSC, RACK, negotiation frameworks, scene safety, aftercare basics, and why cutting corners isn’t edgy — it’s sloppy.

Seasoned kinksters and curious newcomers ask questions, share insights, and deepen the conversation — because community education is part of the scene.

Whether you’re new to kink, kink-curious, or a seasoned player who knows safety is a skill you practice — not a badge you earn, this episode reinforces why discipline, communication, and awareness are the real marks of dominance and submission alike.

 

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YKF Weekends PRIMAL PLAY w TheLadyLioness, Justin Sayne, Anna Valentina & Mistress Sophie

“Be thankful for what you are given.”

Justin Sayne (Fetish Mafia), The Lady Lioness, Anna Valentina, Mistress Sophie, & Nicholas Tanek join YKF Weekends for an episode on PRIMAL PLAY. We smash myths! Justin Sane detailed his quick-release asphyxiation collar for safe, mind-blowing restriction-plus-stimulation rushes, plus crew fantasies like Anna Valentina’s midnight forest hunts and alpha-sub claw sessions. Scent obsession, violet wands, knives, pack bonding, and themed aftercare kept it guttural and real—consensual, raw, community-driven. Producer’s note: We witness the birth of The Growl.

 

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YKF THE GROWL: NauttiBoy Loves Knives

“Do not dull your knives.”

NauttiBoy loves knives! The Lady Lioness & Nicholas Tanek interview NauttiBoy about safe, sane, & consensual knife play. We also discuss edge play and being a part of an abduction team.

“The sound of the blade clicking leads to the sound of panties dropping.”

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YKF WEEKENDS: Finding A Kink Space (w/ The LadyLioness, Cassidy Cream, & Mistress Sophie)

Are you having trouble finding a space to be kinky? This episode is for you. TheLadyLioness, Cassidy Cream, & Mistress Sophie discuss finding a safe and inspiring place to get kinky.

From shedding judgment at your first munch to vetting new dungeons by checking hosts’ ethics and attendee vibes, the panel drops wisdom for hesitant newbies. They tackle small-town scenes, the rise of paid professional dungeons and kinky Airbnbs (mostly a win for accessibility), inclusivity must-haves like elevators and diversity statements, and ultimate dream spaces, ranging from equestrian pony stables to shadowy, high-energy warehouses with aftercare nooks. Nicholas Tanek tells his story of pallet wrap in public.

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YKF WEEKENDS: “Kink Weddings / Collaring Ceremonies” (f/ Mistress Schari & friends)

“A wedding ceremony tells a love story.”

Mistress Schari (Mischief Manor) admits she got ordained just to marry all the kinky couples she keeps matchmaking. Joined by Mistress Claudia, Mistress Sophie, and The LadyLioness, they dive into collaring ceremonies, writing vows that actually matter, and why a collar often hits deeper than a ring. At its heart, the episode boils down to one truth: kinksters crave real connection, fierce commitment, and one hell of a party surrounded by the chosen family who truly understand.

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TheLadyLioness – 12.2025

“I’m taking the bitch out of Femdom.”

TheLadyLioness is the Web Mistress and co-leader of ClubFEMNJ, a private international social organization for female-led relationships (FLR) in the BDSM community. We discuss New Jersey kink events, SPANKSGIVING, Goddess House, leather family dynamics, the allure of Oud Gourmand scents, “dungeon disease,” and embracing her Mommy Domme identity.

“The time you realize you are in trouble, you are too close.”

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