“2026 is the year of showing up.”
Eustacia joins YKF for the first one-on-one episode of 2026. She’s the legendary Boston Dominatrix who’s also a certified helicopter pilot—her spirit color is traffic cone orange. We discuss the dungeon reflex, the grief of a sub’s passing, being banned from platforms, NOLA hip-hop, The Lost Boys, and attempting to re-enact Whitesnake’s “Here I Go Again” video.
“I’m still going to try and flush your head down the toilet.”
“A lot of people don’t see the preparation.”
Danny Stygion is the director of the 2025 documentary, Dominatrices. We discuss being a filmmaker, Sinical Magazine, being a professional BDSM photographer, One Last Trip, Bayou City Burlesque, working with Dita Von Teese, how lighting changes everything, and the power of nylons.
“Work with the resources you have.”
Continue reading Danny Stygion – director of Dominatrices (film)/Sinical Magazine – 1.2026
“I want to be free-free”
Karen Joyner-Washington, (also known as Wintah Storm), is a poet, spoken word artist, and author from Allendale, SC. In this episode, we delve into her work with P.E.A.C.E., a nonprofit organization that utilizes the arts to inspire and uplift communities. We explore her poetry, books, and music, while she graces us with three powerful—and deliciously kinky—poems. Plus, Nicholas Tanek debuts of his poem, “Kink Helps Kink.”
“Someone’s gonna remember me.”
Continue reading Karen Joyner-Washington (Wintah Storm) – 9.2025
“Mean it… Go all in.”
Nicco Noire returns to YKF from her neon boudoir to tell us about making manginas, her poetry of naming subs, the magic of masks, Germany, Amsterdam, Depeche Mode, adorable Midwestern accents, and electrocuting someone through their butthole.
“I want to write songs with Tom Waits & Keith Richards.”
Dan (Dan Kilian & The Million Man Band / The Ks) is the man who wrote the theme song to SUNDAY SERVICE (Sunday Serve Us). Find out the whole story behind the theme song! We will talk about his new album, “Bedpop”, his previous band The Ks (“Cant Get It Together”), keeping a band together, writing musicals, forming a supergroup, being done with punctuation, and fighting fascism with culture.
Continue reading Dan Kilian & The Million Man Band / The Ks – 6.2025
“The monsters of today will eventually go down in flames.”
Andy Mascola is the host of People Are The Enemy Podcast and an indie author (“Jade Suede,” “The Peeper & The Playwright,” “Zero Percent Juice”). He joins YKF to get lost in kinky music, art, books, and the world of publishing subversive fiction. We talk of the undeniable influence of The Best Show on WFMU with Tom Scharpling, Jon Wurster, astute perversions of Momus, and how Werner Herzog inspires us.
“Dig for the good stuff. You’ll find it.”
Nicco Noire, Katarina The Domme Kat, Naughty Giselle & Nicholas Tanek are united within the kink community through their love of music. We talk live shows of Depeche Mode, Dead Can Dance, Ministry, Rob Zombie, The Jesus & Mary Chain, Apocalyptica, Netta, Stevie Wonder, Debbie Gibson, and more. Nicco Noire talks about her band, Razorblade Pussy. We also discussed cunnilingus at The Limelight and being fed to the cuttlefish of Cthulhu at a Gwar concert.
Continue reading YKF SUNDAYS: Kinky People Go To Concerts Too! 9.22.2024
“I enjoy getting creative and being mean.”
Goddess Charlotte Lashes is a West Coast Dominatrix known as the Kinky Barbie Domme. We discuss our love of theatre, dancing, performance, leather, mindfuckery, genitorture, why we love cuckolding, full toilet training, filling all their holes, Carl Jung, Sigmund Freud, and we play “build your own vampire.”
“One common denominator is that we are all kinky.”
Continue reading Goddess Charlotte Lashes – 8.2024 w/ Nicholas Tanek
“The longest relationship in my life was with Depeche Mode.” – Nicco Noire
Why do so many of my cool kinky friends love Depeche Mode and goth synth music? Nicco Noire & The Commandant claim the music of Depeche Mode should be played in all BDSM dungeons.
We discuss the Depeche Mode discography, the atmospheric style, drug use, romance, songs for edging, a DM tattooed woo-hah, and why “Christmas Island” is the best Depeche Mode song to flog to.
“Martin Gore is naturally a kinky person.” – The Commandant
Continue reading Depeche Mode For Dungeons – Nicco Noire & The Commandant
“I microdose DMT on a fairly regular basis.” – Vivian
Vivian, Vex, Nicco Noire, and Nicholas Tanek discuss intoxication play, micro-dosing, cannabis, mushrooms, forced Viagra, DMT shibari sessions, sissy hypno, music, role play, femdom, serotonin, and psychedelic hot chocolate.
“I automatically take the role as the doctor” – Vex
Note: This is harm reduction. YKF does NOT condone any form of non-consensual intoxication play.
Continue reading The Femdom Intoxication Episode – 11.2023 w/ Vivian, Vex, & Nicco Noire
