Tag: rope

YKF GROWL: Briska (NJ Rope Legend/Educator)

“Power exchange is how I express my love for people.”

Briska is a legendary New Jersey rope educator and performer in the BDSM scene. She founded The Moth House, a small leather house dedicated to queer joy, community, and education. In this discussion, we explore her past experience modeling for major kink sites, including Hard Tied, Infernal Restraints, and Kink.com. She retired from modeling around 2010 to focus on tying others, creating dynamic scenes, teaching, and deepening her own rope and power exchange practices.

“Rope is an extension of myself.”

 

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YKF GROWL: BDSM Safety 101 w/ The Lady Lioness & Nicholas Tanek

The Lady Lioness & Nicholas Tanek strip BDSM safety down to its bones — and rebuild it with consent, negotiation, risk awareness, and intentional power exchange at the core. We talk SSC, RACK, negotiation frameworks, scene safety, aftercare basics, and why cutting corners isn’t edgy — it’s sloppy.

Seasoned kinksters and curious newcomers ask questions, share insights, and deepen the conversation — because community education is part of the scene.

Whether you’re new to kink, kink-curious, or a seasoned player who knows safety is a skill you practice — not a badge you earn, this episode reinforces why discipline, communication, and awareness are the real marks of dominance and submission alike.

 

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Governess Katherine Worthington aka Sweet Mistress Cyn – 1.2025 w/ Nicholas Tanek

“Kink heals my heart and other people’s hearts.” 

Armed with a steam gun and a prison strap, Governess Katherine Worthington (aka Sweet Mistress Cyn) rises again like a phoenix in the first YKF interview for 2025!  This sweet and beautiful southern belle is a veteran pro-Mommy, disciplinarian, domestic domme & relaxation specialist with over 25 years of experience.   She shows us her NEW playspace, including the artwork she does, her ABDL nursery, the classroom, her spanking bench, the medical room & her bedroom, The Lonestar Spanking Party, sissification, AB/DL,  spanking, medical play tips and her innovative use of including STEAM for kink and glandular/circulatory health.

 

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VIDEO CHAT: Lilyann Laurent – 1.2024 w/ Nicholas Tanek

“I had my rope top tie me to a tree next to a lake with lilipads.”

Lilyann Laurent is the author of “Vulpes Niveus”. She is also a film director, singer-songwriter, spirituality influencer, and lifestyle brand designer.  We discuss age-gap romance with older men, erotic fiction, poetry, the bond of rope/shibari, and primal play.

“There aren’t enough bisexual women represented in media.”

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The Femdom Intoxication Episode – 11.2023 w/ Vivian, Vex, & Nicco Noire

“I microdose DMT on a fairly regular basis.” – Vivian

Vivian, Vex, Nicco Noire, and Nicholas Tanek discuss intoxication play, micro-dosing, cannabis, mushrooms, forced Viagra, DMT shibari sessions, sissy hypno, music, role play, femdom, serotonin, and psychedelic hot chocolate.

“I automatically take the role as the doctor” – Vex

Note: This is harm reduction. YKF does NOT condone any form of non-consensual intoxication play.  

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The YKF ROPE Show w/ Briska, Nicco Noire, DK Blackfish, Rope Aficionado, & Nicholas Tanek – 10.2023

On a beautiful Sunday in October of 2023, Nicholas Tanek, Briska, Nicco Noire, Sunshine, The Latex Cowboy, Rope Aficionado, and DK Blackfish met to discuss their love of rope play.  Watch as riggers tie their subs in New Jersey, Ohio, and Texas – all on one live stream.

After technical issues, we continued the live stream on Part Two.

Your Kinky Friends put the “bond” in bondage. Like rope, friendship ties the show together.

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VIDEO CHAT: Kristyna Dark -10.2023 w/ Nicholas Tanek

“I have such a love-hate relationship with tickling.”

Kristyna Dark returns to discuss Peplove phone sex, puppy play, kitten play, rope suspension, tickling, cats, false knots, and slurping the blood off someone’s back

“If I can have bondage, that is my drug of choice.”

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VIDEO CHAT: Mistress Sophie (UK) – 7.2023 w/ Nicholas Tanek

“You have to naturally find things yourself.”

Mistress Sophie is a Transgender autistic Dominatrix who is also a truck driver in London. She returns to discuss intensive bondage, truckers, liposuction, rope, financial domination, transgender safety, and plans to consensually kidnap me if I visit London.

“Just be you.”

(Note: of course, the interview has technical issues at the end)

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VIDEO CHAT: Caittrin Lee – 3.2023 w/ Nicholas Tanek

“I keep people under my bed… and in the closet.”

Caittrin Lee is an International Dominatrix living the FemDom lifestyle. We discuss international jet-setting,  hentai, the fetish for Asian women, Berlin, trampling, food, BDSM workshops, SPG, the intensity of the Femdom ball, medical play, and Singapore sex laws.

“What if I use the speculum on female subs?”

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VIDEO CHAT: Mistress Donna 3.2023

“Ballbusting is a love language.”

Mistress Donna from Colorado Springs discusses CBT/Ballbusting, financial domination, foot worship, humiliation, Femdom, teaching newbie subs, and little things to do to enhance mindfuckery.

“We all should be ball-busting more often.”

“I want to make you uncomfortable… not ruin your life.”

“Worshipping women is taboo in our society…  unfortunately.”

“We all should be ball-busting more often.”

“I am ready to kick balls at any moment.”

(re: Showering before a session)

“I don’t want to smell your 4-hour-old jizm in your pants.”

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