A professional Dominatrix is more than just a sex worker. They play the role of a kinky therapist or counselor. Throughout this series, I have befriended many professional Dommes. Each one has something unique to offer and can give us insight into their world. So, I asked some of our professional Dominatrix friends some questions.
Here are their answers.
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Erotic hypnosis is the practice of hypnosis for sexual purposes. Often used in Femdom, the erotic hypnotist can sissify a man, financially dominate someone, or lead to total power exchange. Hypnosis is a huge fetish in the kink community. So, I asked some of our kinky erotic hypnosis friends some questions.
Here are their answers.
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Note: 1RuleSupersedes is a musician from New Jersey and fetish enthusiast.
I remember all through school I was a daydreamer. I would focus on stories that I had in my mind. Most of them would be romantic or warlord like. As I got older I picked up the bass guitar and the stories in my mind turned into songs. When I turned about 25 I took a couple of acting/writing classes and started writing in character influenced monologues. I guess at this point I do not have a certain recipe for writing. I write whatever feels right and go with that.
So if I had to answer why I write? My answer would simply be, I am a fantasy junky!
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It is not uncommon for people coming into BDSM to use caricatures as a model on how to act until they figure themselves out. These caricatures are sometimes based on our limited books/movies and extensive porn. Other times they are based on a preconceived notion of how someone with “that identity” would act. In the beginning of finding your identity having a caricature can be empowering. It can give you an idea into who you want to be. I remember my caricature as a new Dominant. The caricature I assumed was quiet, calm, and hyper vigilant. It took so much energy that I couldn’t sustain it outside of the public BDSM space, but that is when I felt I needed it.
My husband asked me once why I like to be spanked, flogged and handled roughly. He wanted to understand why I like the things that cause pain. I explained him that it helps me cope with my disabilities.
Mistress Alexxxia is a central New York-based Dominatrix, published model, and artist. She has only been in the Domme role since May of 2017 but has been involved in the kink world since late 2011. Her specialties include financial domination, cuckolding, ass worship, ritual roleplay, and CBT (cock and ball torture).
Alexxxia was always one with a clever brain and never ending imagination, and spent most of her life as the artistic type who was often kicked around. Now, having found her inner voice and power, she has been making up for lost time, channeling it all into destroying men’s egos with a special sadistic flair.
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The Rule of Three – Part One
The biggest mistake that I see most new Masters make is having an extensive list of things that they want their slave to do. New Masters often times put unnecessary pressure on themselves by expecting everything all at once. Having a huge list in the beginning creates a couple of different issues.
First off, understand that if you as a Master cannot remember all of the things that you are requesting of your slave then why should your slave remember? Secondly, this creates an unrealistic expectation on both you as well as your slave as to what can be realistically achieved in the early days of your dynamic. Slaves want to excel, they want to give, and they want to be the best they can for the Masters that they love. So set them and you up for success.
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