“My closet is dark.”
The Lady Lioness and Nicco Noire unpack the elegant world of Femdom tea parties—from protocol training, silent service in bow ties, tiered serving trays and scones, to consent, and a perfectly timed naughty stick moment. We discuss the Goddess House NJ Tea Party, ClubFEMNJ events, cannabis and consent, and how Nicco Noire maintains her magnificence.
Are you having trouble finding a space to be kinky? This episode is for you. TheLadyLioness, Cassidy Cream, & Mistress Sophie discuss finding a safe and inspiring place to get kinky.
From shedding judgment at your first munch to vetting new dungeons by checking hosts’ ethics and attendee vibes, the panel drops wisdom for hesitant newbies. They tackle small-town scenes, the rise of paid professional dungeons and kinky Airbnbs (mostly a win for accessibility), inclusivity must-haves like elevators and diversity statements, and ultimate dream spaces, ranging from equestrian pony stables to shadowy, high-energy warehouses with aftercare nooks. Nicholas Tanek tells his story of pallet wrap in public.
YKF GROWL: A new YKF series
“We train boys.”
The Lady Lioness and Nicholas Tanek welcome Velvet Contessa (ClubFemNJ/Goddess House) and Mistress Gabrielle (2 Kinky Women Podcast) for a lively discussion on elegant Femdom culture, exploring Goddess House events, the grace and symbolism of formal tea parties, Spanksgiving celebrations, training submissive boys, the use of shock collars, consensual kidnapping scenarios, and the delights of sissy maid service.
“Etiquette means being kind to others.”
“I was collaring subs like collecting Pokémon cards.”
Mistress Tess is a legend in the UK Femdom community. She joins YKF to talk about Fetish Weekend London, the CFNM lifestyle, Gynarchy Governance, Vanilla Corruption, whips made of fishing wire, keeping her husband in permanent chastity, ruined orgasms, rubber, the love of horses, and turning men into man-puddles.
“Usually, crying is where I would stop, but…”
“If everybody has a mission despite their differences, great things happen.”
John Baku is the founder and CEO of FetLife.com, the world’s largest social network for the BDSM, fetish, and kink communities. John reflects on how FetLife has transformed countless lives and connected people across the globe—yet still can’t secure a spot in the Apple App Store. They revisit its humble beginnings in Canada, the craft of coding, the guiding force of love at its heart, and the vibrant, ever-expanding world John has quietly shaped and continues to nurture.
“As we get older, we are trying to do less, better.”
Continue reading John Baku (founder/CEO of FetLife.com) – 12.2025
“A wedding ceremony tells a love story.”
Continue reading YKF WEEKENDS: “Kink Weddings / Collaring Ceremonies” (f/ Mistress Schari & friends)
“Swallow your pride, sissies.”
Sissy Joyce, Belgium’s sissy superstar and creator of The Sissy Market, explores the allure of chastity, cuckolding, and sissification with YKF as she shares her HRT-fueled journey with sissy hypno, sissy exposure, consent vs. abuse, and creating a brick & mortar sissy paradise.
“Chastity is a very personal thing.”
“I’m taking the bitch out of Femdom.”
TheLadyLioness is the Web Mistress and co-leader of ClubFEMNJ, a private international social organization for female-led relationships (FLR) in the BDSM community. We discuss New Jersey kink events, SPANKSGIVING, Goddess House, leather family dynamics, the allure of Oud Gourmand scents, “dungeon disease,” and embracing her Mommy Domme identity.
“The time you realize you are in trouble, you are too close.”
