An Introduction to Findom: Financial Domination in the Kink World

Article by FindomMeet

Money is power. We all know that. But in the kink world, money can literally become part of the power exchange. That’s what financial domination—better known as findom—is all about.

For some people, giving money isn’t just paying for dinner or bills. It’s giving up control. It’s sacrifice. It’s submission. And for others, being the one who receives, who controls, who demands? That’s intoxicating power.

Findom isn’t for everyone, but for the people who dive into it, it can be just as intense and fulfilling as bondage, spanking, or any other fetish. Let’s break it down.

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Miss Kim Rub – 8.2025

“I like fiendish, scientific, and intricate things.”

Miss Kim Rub, the legendary kink icon, returns to YKF to talk about Rubber Cult, rubber-only fetish clubbing, days of underground kink, horseshoe nails, and beautiful kinky films. (“Preaching To The Perverted,” “Maitresse,” “The Cook, The Thief, His Wife, & Her Lover,” and “Personal Services”)

“BDSM will never be boring.”

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Lauryn Petrie – 3.2025

“We got death threats… It was great!”

Lauryn Petrie is a nihilistic anarchist comic, writer, and podcaster, who discusses Morgue Girl, her book about being an autopsy assistant.  We talk about her comedy roots, Alient Murder Sex Podcast, The Traumedy Hour, Skankfest, Dave Attell, Doug Stanhope, Dave Hill, and dead baby jokes.

“I spent a whole summer smoking meth and watching Goreish. I can handle this.”

 

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Mischief Manor: Real Random Quotes

Conversations with kinky people inspire us. Since the opening night in 2022, I began collecting real random quotes that I overhear in passing while at Mischief Manor, my local BDSM kink dungeon run by the legendary Mistress Schari.  The rule of the game is that people must consent to contribute these quotes. Second, they are actual quotes that must be random, but in passing. The third rule is never to attribute a quote to a person. Part of the fun is remembering who said it (or who you think would have said it).

“I want weird people to meet other weird people.”

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VIDEO CHAT: Inanna Justice 10.2022 w/ Nicholas Tanek

“I wanted to explore the depths of Femdom.”

Inanna Justice talks about her new book HEART OF THE DOMINATRIX which documents many Professional Dommes from all over the world. We discuss the BDSM scene in France, creating her book, her board game Inannapoly: jeu de société BDSM, her dungeon escape room, publishing, editing, feminism, sensory play, mental domination, sploshing, sex work, and FML (female-led relationships).

NOTE: The Virginie Despentes film referenced is actually Bye Bye Blondie

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VIDEO CHAT: SugarC*nt Pt. 3 – 5.2022 – w/ Nicholas Tanek

I felt like my c*nt was full of bees… angry bees!”

SugarC*nt is a writer, sex blogger, and advisor for The Effing Foundation. We discuss being Bi-Polar, PTSD, human furniture, TeaseCraft, bad sex toys, lube, and accidentally shredding their vagina.

I’m as crazy as a box of weasels.”

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TEXT INTERVIEW: Mistress Kym by Slave Karissa

Interview by Slave Karissa

Slave Karissa does a text interview with Mistress Kym (https://mistresskym.com) from California. They talk about living in a 24/7 female-led relationship with her live-in slave, feet, and being a Dominatrix.

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VIDEO CHAT: Natasha Strange w/ Nicholas Tanek

“I have fun body bags that I put people in.”

Natasha Strange is a Dominatrix in Portland, OR. We talk about diapers, adult babies, consensual blackmail, pegging, sissification, chastity, emasculation, CBT,  the creative things submissives can do with Lego, and diaper humiliation in Disneyland. We also get a look at her book D Is For Diaper Humiliation.

“I don’t want you to know what will happen next.”

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