Category: femme

YKF GROWL: BDSM Safety 101 w/ The Lady Lioness & Nicholas Tanek

The Lady Lioness & Nicholas Tanek strip BDSM safety down to its bones — and rebuild it with consent, negotiation, risk awareness, and intentional power exchange at the core. We talk SSC, RACK, negotiation frameworks, scene safety, aftercare basics, and why cutting corners isn’t edgy — it’s sloppy.

Seasoned kinksters and curious newcomers ask questions, share insights, and deepen the conversation — because community education is part of the scene.

Whether you’re new to kink, kink-curious, or a seasoned player who knows safety is a skill you practice — not a badge you earn, this episode reinforces why discipline, communication, and awareness are the real marks of dominance and submission alike.

 

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YKF THE GROWL: NauttiBoy Loves Knives

“Do not dull your knives.”

NauttiBoy loves knives! The Lady Lioness & Nicholas Tanek interview NauttiBoy about safe, sane, & consensual knife play. We also discuss edge play and being a part of an abduction team.

“The sound of the blade clicking leads to the sound of panties dropping.”

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THE GROWL: Nicco Noire

“My closet is dark.”

The Lady Lioness and Nicco Noire unpack the elegant world of Femdom tea parties—from protocol training, silent service in bow ties, tiered serving trays and scones, to consent, and a perfectly timed naughty stick moment. We discuss the Goddess House NJ Tea Party, ClubFEMNJ events, cannabis and consent, and how Nicco Noire maintains her magnificence.

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YKF WEEKENDS: Finding A Kink Space (w/ The LadyLioness, Cassidy Cream, & Mistress Sophie)

Are you having trouble finding a space to be kinky? This episode is for you. TheLadyLioness, Cassidy Cream, & Mistress Sophie discuss finding a safe and inspiring place to get kinky.

From shedding judgment at your first munch to vetting new dungeons by checking hosts’ ethics and attendee vibes, the panel drops wisdom for hesitant newbies. They tackle small-town scenes, the rise of paid professional dungeons and kinky Airbnbs (mostly a win for accessibility), inclusivity must-haves like elevators and diversity statements, and ultimate dream spaces, ranging from equestrian pony stables to shadowy, high-energy warehouses with aftercare nooks. Nicholas Tanek tells his story of pallet wrap in public.

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Mistress Tess – 1.2026

“I was collaring subs like collecting Pokémon cards.”

Mistress Tess is a legend in the UK Femdom community. She joins YKF to talk about Fetish Weekend London, the CFNM lifestyle, Gynarchy Governance, Vanilla Corruption, whips made of fishing wire, keeping her husband in permanent chastity, ruined orgasms, rubber, the love of horses, and turning men into man-puddles.

“Usually, crying is where I would stop, but…”

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YKF WEEKENDS: “Kink Weddings / Collaring Ceremonies” (f/ Mistress Schari & friends)

“A wedding ceremony tells a love story.”

Mistress Schari (Mischief Manor) admits she got ordained just to marry all the kinky couples she keeps matchmaking. Joined by Mistress Claudia, Mistress Sophie, and The LadyLioness, they dive into collaring ceremonies, writing vows that actually matter, and why a collar often hits deeper than a ring. At its heart, the episode boils down to one truth: kinksters crave real connection, fierce commitment, and one hell of a party surrounded by the chosen family who truly understand.

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TheLadyLioness – 12.2025

“I’m taking the bitch out of Femdom.”

TheLadyLioness is the Web Mistress and co-leader of ClubFEMNJ, a private international social organization for female-led relationships (FLR) in the BDSM community. We discuss New Jersey kink events, SPANKSGIVING, Goddess House, leather family dynamics, the allure of Oud Gourmand scents, “dungeon disease,” and embracing her Mommy Domme identity.

“The time you realize you are in trouble, you are too close.”

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YKF WEEKENDS: The Femdom Ball w/ Alex Keeper & Mistress Sophie

“Only the Dommes are permitted to have chairs.”

Alex Keeper & Mistress Sophie talk with YKF about the elegant Femdom Ball 2025 in London.

 

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PANDEMONIUM – Mistress June & CashVamp – 11.2025

“Beating people burns calories.”

Mistress June & CashVamp talk Pandemonium (aka, the Capital of Hell), an immersive BDSM play party in Philadelphia. We also discuss the 4 BDSM theme rooms, kinky speed dating, variants of pain play, drag tail whips, two-way mirrors, TRE (Trauma Release Exercises), and how OCPD makes Mistress June a chronic kink overworker.

“Be proud of your kinks.”

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