“Engage in kink with as many people as possible.”
Mistress Vinyl Queen returns after many years to claim her throne as the queen of vinyl at YKF. We discuss San Francisco kink, being the OG of trampling, a flesh-colored cucumber in a prison cell, using barcodes for her shoe inventory, and balancing on a man’s chest while wearing heels.
“Kink is like always going to the gym.”
The Lady Lioness & Nicholas Tanek strip BDSM safety down to its bones — and rebuild it with consent, negotiation, risk awareness, and intentional power exchange at the core. We talk SSC, RACK, negotiation frameworks, scene safety, aftercare basics, and why cutting corners isn’t edgy — it’s sloppy.
Seasoned kinksters and curious newcomers ask questions, share insights, and deepen the conversation — because community education is part of the scene.
Whether you’re new to kink, kink-curious, or a seasoned player who knows safety is a skill you practice — not a badge you earn, this episode reinforces why discipline, communication, and awareness are the real marks of dominance and submission alike.
Continue reading YKF GROWL: BDSM Safety 101 w/ The Lady Lioness & Nicholas Tanek
“Do not dull your knives.”
NauttiBoy loves knives! The Lady Lioness & Nicholas Tanek interview NauttiBoy about safe, sane, & consensual knife play. We also discuss edge play and being a part of an abduction team.
“The sound of the blade clicking leads to the sound of panties dropping.”
“My closet is dark.”
The Lady Lioness and Nicco Noire unpack the elegant world of Femdom tea parties—from protocol training, silent service in bow ties, tiered serving trays and scones, to consent, and a perfectly timed naughty stick moment. We discuss the Goddess House NJ Tea Party, ClubFEMNJ events, cannabis and consent, and how Nicco Noire maintains her magnificence.
Are you having trouble finding a space to be kinky? This episode is for you. TheLadyLioness, Cassidy Cream, & Mistress Sophie discuss finding a safe and inspiring place to get kinky.
From shedding judgment at your first munch to vetting new dungeons by checking hosts’ ethics and attendee vibes, the panel drops wisdom for hesitant newbies. They tackle small-town scenes, the rise of paid professional dungeons and kinky Airbnbs (mostly a win for accessibility), inclusivity must-haves like elevators and diversity statements, and ultimate dream spaces, ranging from equestrian pony stables to shadowy, high-energy warehouses with aftercare nooks. Nicholas Tanek tells his story of pallet wrap in public.
“I was collaring subs like collecting Pokémon cards.”
Mistress Tess is a legend in the UK Femdom community. She joins YKF to talk about Fetish Weekend London, the CFNM lifestyle, Gynarchy Governance, Vanilla Corruption, whips made of fishing wire, keeping her husband in permanent chastity, ruined orgasms, rubber, the love of horses, and turning men into man-puddles.
“Usually, crying is where I would stop, but…”
“A wedding ceremony tells a love story.”
Continue reading YKF WEEKENDS: “Kink Weddings / Collaring Ceremonies” (f/ Mistress Schari & friends)
“I’m taking the bitch out of Femdom.”
TheLadyLioness is the Web Mistress and co-leader of ClubFEMNJ, a private international social organization for female-led relationships (FLR) in the BDSM community. We discuss New Jersey kink events, SPANKSGIVING, Goddess House, leather family dynamics, the allure of Oud Gourmand scents, “dungeon disease,” and embracing her Mommy Domme identity.
“The time you realize you are in trouble, you are too close.”
“Only the Dommes are permitted to have chairs.”
Alex Keeper & Mistress Sophie talk with YKF about the elegant Femdom Ball 2025 in London.
Continue reading YKF WEEKENDS: The Femdom Ball w/ Alex Keeper & Mistress Sophie
