Category: submissivve

YKF GROWL: BDSM Safety 101 w/ The Lady Lioness & Nicholas Tanek

The Lady Lioness & Nicholas Tanek strip BDSM safety down to its bones — and rebuild it with consent, negotiation, risk awareness, and intentional power exchange at the core. We talk SSC, RACK, negotiation frameworks, scene safety, aftercare basics, and why cutting corners isn’t edgy — it’s sloppy.

Seasoned kinksters and curious newcomers ask questions, share insights, and deepen the conversation — because community education is part of the scene.

Whether you’re new to kink, kink-curious, or a seasoned player who knows safety is a skill you practice — not a badge you earn, this episode reinforces why discipline, communication, and awareness are the real marks of dominance and submission alike.

 

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YKF WEEKENDS: The Femdom Ball w/ Alex Keeper & Mistress Sophie

“Only the Dommes are permitted to have chairs.”

Alex Keeper & Mistress Sophie talk with YKF about the elegant Femdom Ball 2025 in London.

 

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Sir Aiden Charming (aka “The Fire Guy”) – 8.2025

“I want to roast marshmallows on him.”

Sir Aiden Charming (aka “The Fire Guy”) is a professional switch based in Phoenix, Arizona. We discuss safe fire play, the fluidity of being a switch, non-verbal safewords, fire massage, an hour of paddles, Tom Six’s “The Onania Club,” and making a human campfire.

“Being a switch means fluidity.”

 

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YKF WEEKENDS: “Your Partner Is Vanilla?!?” (f/Goddess Giselle, Miztress Claudia, & Anna Valentina)

“A nibble on a chin was too kinky for him.”

Goddess Giselle, Miztress Claudia, & Anna Valentina join YKF to answer what happens when sex workers and kinky clients have vanilla partners.

“Don’t assume what you don’t know. Don’t judge.”

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GoddessOfStitchz (aka Mistress Hayley) – 8.2025

“No.. your favorite color is now pink.”

Mistress Hayley aka GoddessofStitchz is living her best life in a D/s marriage with her sissy lobster. We discuss the real-life D/s dynamic, cuckolding, chastity, social kink, misery sticks, her love of crocheting, and sissifying her husband in pink.

“I’m not looking for Christian Grey. I AM Christian Grey.”

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Candle Wax Play with Director Jez

“Be mindful of where the flame is.”

Director Jezebelle from K!nkify talks “Melting Point,” her candle wax play tutorial/class. We discuss why soy candles work best, the symbolism of dripping wax, pickling people, tarps, wax on buttcheeks, candle wax on melanated skin, candle wax mishaps, candle wax on the clitoris, aftercare, and how to clean up.

“People underestimate candles.”

 

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Katarina “The Domme Kat” Pierce – (Wrestling & Feminization) – 8.2025

“I love taking a tiny man and tossing him around like pizza dough.”

Katarina “The Domme Kat” Pierce returns to YKF to discuss her “Surrender: Wrestling & Feminization” party. We discuss the power of TRASH TALK, joint locks, blood chokes, snapping pantyhose, bondage wrestling, suspending sissies, and a gay girl’s dream.

“The joke is on you, Dad. This gives me a boner.”

 

 

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YKF WEEKENDS: Losing A Long-Term Submissive (f/The Commandant, Miztress Claudia, Mistress Scarlet, & Anna Valentina)

“Star Trek saved my life.”

The Commandant, Miztress Claudia, Mistress Scarlet, & Anna Valentina discuss the complicated pain of losing a long-term submissive. How do you recover? What do you do with the toilet coffin?

“You’re not in love with me. Your brain is just stupid.”

THE PAIN OF LOSS RESONATES WITH THE KINK COMMUNITY. Did the relationship sour? Was it a health issue? Was it a location issue? What led to you losing a long-term sub? Flipside: What made you end your relationship with a long-term submissive/client? YKF gets emotional.

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YKF WEEKENDS – “De-Escalation In The Dungeon” (w/ catnip_boi, Miztress Claudia, & Anna Valentina)

“It’s a sensitive area.”

Issues with your BDSM dungeon? We can help! catnip_boi serves Mistress Schari at Mischief Manor. They educate YKF on how to de-escalate situations in BDSM dungeons and kink spaces. Miztress Claudia & Anna Valentina join us.

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