Category: writers

YKF Growl: BDSM BURNOUT (w/ The Lady Lioness & Nicholas Tanek)

The Lady Lioness & Nicholas Tanek discuss BDSM BURNOUT. Kink burnout is that quiet (or crushing) feeling when the hunger fades, scenes feel like chores, time-wasters & catfish drain you dry, and even your favorite fetish starts tasting like obligation.

Important takeaways: You are not broken. Pausing isn’t failure. The community has space for rest (podcasts, online classes, vanilla hangouts with kinky friends).  Play Recovery Roulette!

Ultimate message: Change is constant. The kink ocean is vast. Someone (or something) can reignite your flame when you least expect it.

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THE GROWL: Nicco Noire

“My closet is dark.”

The Lady Lioness and Nicco Noire unpack the elegant world of Femdom tea parties—from protocol training, silent service in bow ties, tiered serving trays and scones, to consent, and a perfectly timed naughty stick moment. We discuss the Goddess House NJ Tea Party, ClubFEMNJ events, cannabis and consent, and how Nicco Noire maintains her magnificence.

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THE GROWL: Velvet Contessa (ClubFemNJ/Goddess House) and Mistress Gabrielle (2 Kinky Women Podcast)

YKF GROWL: A new YKF series

“We train boys.”

The Lady Lioness and Nicholas Tanek welcome Velvet Contessa (ClubFemNJ/Goddess House) and Mistress Gabrielle (2 Kinky Women Podcast) for a lively discussion on elegant Femdom culture, exploring Goddess House events, the grace and symbolism of formal tea parties, Spanksgiving celebrations, training submissive boys, the use of shock collars, consensual kidnapping scenarios, and the delights of sissy maid service.

“Etiquette means being kind to others.”

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Mistress Cyan – DomCon NOLA 2025

“You don’t know what you don’t know.”

Mistress Cyan joins YKF to discuss DomCon NOLA 2025. The founder of DomCon and Sanctuary Studios LAX, Mistress Cyan, discusses New Orleans, the kinky 2nd Line parade, her love of impact play, liquid nitrogen play, the importance of community in the streets of New Orleans, and how the S.W.O.T. method helps in kink.

“There is a market for everyone out there.”

 

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subMissAnn (author of Pony Play) – 10.2025

“All you have is your connection with humanity.”

subMissAnn returns to #YKF to talk about the third edition of her book, “Pony Play”. We discuss pony play, Los Angeles Pony & Critter Club, Equus International Pony Play Event, the leather community “The Art Of Racing In The Rain,” and the fear of the cattle prod.

“Dedication, integrity, passion, & commitment.”

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Scottie Schneider (Ayahuasca) – 10.2025

“Ayahuasca manages you.”

Scottie Schneider is a medically retired West Point Graduate and Army Officer turned Ayahuasca plant medicine facilitator at Ocóyái, a healing retreat center and community in the Colombian jungle. We discuss 7 days of psychedelic healing in the Colombian jungle, helping veterans with polyamory, Ortega’s stinging meddles, and how we are all looking to heal.

“(Ayahuasca) Just do it.”

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An Introduction to Findom: Financial Domination in the Kink World

Article by FindomMeet

Money is power. We all know that. But in the kink world, money can literally become part of the power exchange. That’s what financial domination—better known as findom—is all about.

For some people, giving money isn’t just paying for dinner or bills. It’s giving up control. It’s sacrifice. It’s submission. And for others, being the one who receives, who controls, who demands? That’s intoxicating power.

Findom isn’t for everyone, but for the people who dive into it, it can be just as intense and fulfilling as bondage, spanking, or any other fetish. Let’s break it down.

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YKF WEEKENDS: Never Waste A Domme’s Time w/ Miztress Claudia, Anna Valentina, & Mistress Sophie

“I had to duct tape his whole head.”

Miztress Claudia, Anna Valentina, and Mistress Sophie join YKF to talk about time-wasters in the BDSM community.  Time wasters are the bane of the kink community. Never waste a Domme’s time. Never waste the time of a person who knows how to drill holes in c()cks.

“The guy left with a hole inside of his…”

 

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