YKF GROWL: Mistress Schari of Mischief Manor / Mischief Matters

“We’re the top of the food chain.”

Mischief Schari (Mischief Matters/Mischief Manor) joins The Lady Lioness & Nicholas Tanek on YKF The Growl. We discuss running New Jersey’s coolest BDSM dungeon, having two lifestyle subs, being the hub of Nicholas Tanek’s whimsical creativity, LGBTQIA+ inclusivity, musicals, Princess Leia, Wonder Woman, and a 5-9 person orgy on the dungeon floor.

“You are the longest relationship you will ever have.”

 

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Vinyl Queen (Mistress VQ) – 2.2026

“Engage in kink with as many people as possible.”

Mistress Vinyl Queen returns after many years to claim her throne as the queen of vinyl at YKF. We discuss San Francisco kink, being the OG of trampling, a flesh-colored cucumber in a prison cell, using barcodes for her shoe inventory, and balancing on a man’s chest while wearing heels.

“Kink is like always going to the gym.”

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YKF Growl: BDSM BURNOUT (w/ The Lady Lioness & Nicholas Tanek)

The Lady Lioness & Nicholas Tanek discuss BDSM BURNOUT. Kink burnout is that quiet (or crushing) feeling when the hunger fades, scenes feel like chores, time-wasters & catfish drain you dry, and even your favorite fetish starts tasting like obligation.

Important takeaways: You are not broken. Pausing isn’t failure. The community has space for rest (podcasts, online classes, vanilla hangouts with kinky friends).  Play Recovery Roulette!

Ultimate message: Change is constant. The kink ocean is vast. Someone (or something) can reignite your flame when you least expect it.

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YKF WEEKENDS: Finding A Kink Space (w/ The LadyLioness, Cassidy Cream, & Mistress Sophie)

Are you having trouble finding a space to be kinky? This episode is for you. TheLadyLioness, Cassidy Cream, & Mistress Sophie discuss finding a safe and inspiring place to get kinky.

From shedding judgment at your first munch to vetting new dungeons by checking hosts’ ethics and attendee vibes, the panel drops wisdom for hesitant newbies. They tackle small-town scenes, the rise of paid professional dungeons and kinky Airbnbs (mostly a win for accessibility), inclusivity must-haves like elevators and diversity statements, and ultimate dream spaces, ranging from equestrian pony stables to shadowy, high-energy warehouses with aftercare nooks. Nicholas Tanek tells his story of pallet wrap in public.

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Sir Aiden Charming (aka “The Fire Guy”) – 8.2025

“I want to roast marshmallows on him.”

Sir Aiden Charming (aka “The Fire Guy”) is a professional switch based in Phoenix, Arizona. We discuss safe fire play, the fluidity of being a switch, non-verbal safewords, fire massage, an hour of paddles, Tom Six’s “The Onania Club,” and making a human campfire.

“Being a switch means fluidity.”

 

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YKF WEEKENDS – “De-Escalation In The Dungeon” (w/ catnip_boi, Miztress Claudia, & Anna Valentina)

“It’s a sensitive area.”

Issues with your BDSM dungeon? We can help! catnip_boi serves Mistress Schari at Mischief Manor. They educate YKF on how to de-escalate situations in BDSM dungeons and kink spaces. Miztress Claudia & Anna Valentina join us.

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YKF WEEEKENDS f/ Miztress Claudia & Mistress Sophie – BABYGIRL? / Dealing with TOXIC people in BDSM

“Some of the best friendships I’ve had started in arguments.”

Miztress Claudia (Tempe, AZ) & Mistress Sophie (U.K.) discuss dealing with toxic people in the BDSM/kink community – Nicholas Tanek tries to have a convo about the film Babygirl with Dommes who have not seen it.

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YKF WEEKENDS: Lifestyle vs. Professional? – Miztress Claudia, Chastity Queen, Domme Daniele & Mistress Cassidy Cream

Are you a kinky person who thinks they can go professional? Miztress Claudia, Chastity Queen, Domme Daniele, & Mistress Cassidy Cream discuss lifestyle kink vs. professional kink.  The Kinky Angels try to solve the mystery of “Who stole Miztress Claudia’s flogger from her dungeon?”

Then, we play YKF Kink LEGAL Trivia

“The biggest misconception is that I hate men.”

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Miss Jessica Wood & Miss Lady Louisa – 12.2024

“I love spitting, especially when it’s right in their eye.”

Miss Jessica Wood & Miss Lady Louisa are legendary Dommes from the United Kingdom who rule together.  We talk about bottom-wobbling, a custom-fitted facesitting harness, strap-on parties, dominating with ADHD, the sound of facesitting,  chastity during lockdown, 100 CBT kicks in 10 minutes, eating while smothering, and wee!

“Blood is evil to get rid of.”

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YKF SUNDAYS 11.3.2024 w/ Ms. Cassidy Cream & Neci Archer – “Locktober to Nylon November”

Nicco is absent, but Ms. Cassidy Cream and Neci Archer join Nicholas Tanek to discuss the end of Locktober and the start of Nylon November. We discuss foot massages, thigh-high stockings, garters, and sleeping in a cage… all while Ms. Cassidy shows her naked feet, making Neci blush.

p.s. We witness Neci Archer and Ms. Cassidy Cream meeting for the first time.

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