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YKF GROWL: BDSM Safety 101 w/ The Lady Lioness & Nicholas Tanek

The Lady Lioness & Nicholas Tanek strip BDSM safety down to its bones — and rebuild it with consent, negotiation, risk awareness, and intentional power exchange at the core. We talk SSC, RACK, negotiation frameworks, scene safety, aftercare basics, and why cutting corners isn’t edgy — it’s sloppy.

Seasoned kinksters and curious newcomers ask questions, share insights, and deepen the conversation — because community education is part of the scene.

Whether you’re new to kink, kink-curious, or a seasoned player who knows safety is a skill you practice — not a badge you earn, this episode reinforces why discipline, communication, and awareness are the real marks of dominance and submission alike.

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YKF THE GROWL: NauttiBoy Loves Knives

“Do not dull your knives.”

NauttiBoy loves knives! The Lady Lioness & Nicholas Tanek interview NauttiBoy about safe, sane, & consensual knife play. We also discuss edge play and being a part of an abduction team.

“The sound of the blade clicking leads to the sound of panties dropping.”

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TheLadyLioness – 12.2025

“I’m taking the bitch out of Femdom.”

TheLadyLioness is the Web Mistress and co-leader of ClubFEMNJ, a private international social organization for female-led relationships (FLR) in the BDSM community. We discuss New Jersey kink events, SPANKSGIVING, Goddess House, leather family dynamics, the allure of Oud Gourmand scents, “dungeon disease,” and embracing her Mommy Domme identity.

“The time you realize you are in trouble, you are too close.”

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YKF: Goddess Narcissa – 4.2024 w/ Nicholas Tanek (live from Mischief Manor)

“I enjoy hurting people, but harming someone is completely different.”

Goddess Narcissa is a professional/lifestyle Domme, founder of Mercy Whips, fetish model, and chef. We talk about the art of whipping, an all-Asian BDSM dungeon, outlaw fetish photography, bottom-led learning, finding a dependable whip bottom, and retaliating against attackers with a huge kitchen knife.

“When Narcissa does something, she does it until she gets to the marrow.”

P.S. Goddess Narcissa would like to point out that Dave is not a stalker, but a loyal sub.

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VIDEO CHAT: Sera Miles (PEPlove) – 9.2023 w/ Nicholas Tanek

“People are going to have an experience of feeling secure while playing out the fetishes they are ashamed of.”

The legendary Sera Miles of PEPLove is retiring and all the ladies came together to say thank you to this magnificent woman. We also discuss phone sex, knife play, blood play, sissification, AI in sex work, and how kinky people must communicate. So, let’s talk!

“The first step to make everything better is decriminalization.”

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VIDEO CHAT: Master Woo aka Stevie Dee w/ Nicholas Tanek

“If I’ve not done it, I’ve seen it.”

Stevie Dee aka Woo is the author of Echelon Bound. We discuss his book, using knives in predicament bondage, voyeurism, Scotland, his leather family, surgery, the C-word, and how knives are sexy because they are forbidden.

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VIDEO CHAT: Sir Ezra (House Of Algos) w/ Nicholas Tanek

“Electro-play, edging, and eating ass.”

Sir Ezra is the Director of Education at the legendary SANCTUARY LAX Dungeon and an author. We talk about power dynamics, mindfucking, intimacy coaching, whips, canes, his book Mindfucking Mastery, and using credit cards to practice knife play.

“I love it to be nasty… I’m a nasty boy.”

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VIDEO CHAT: Princess A**hole with Nicholas Tanek

Princess A**hole is 2019 Rocky Mountain Person of Leather and Hard Pink Sister. P.A. is a chapstick femme gender fluid person who is also a BDSM educator. We talk about leather, BLOOD PLAY, being a switch, needle play, fire cupping/blood cupping, fake surgery, scarification, and more!

Nicholas Tanek sits down and has a video chat with her.