VIDEO CHAT: Trish Wright (The Self Love Show) w/ Nicholas Tanek

Historically, they have kept us from being vibrant sexual beings.”

Trish Wright is a certified sex coach from The Self Love Show. She has a deep history in the BDSM kink community. We talk about her roleplaying as different characters, pirate-themed BDSM parties, The Dignified Man, Dark Odyssey Kink Camp, anti-racist BDSM, Gestalt psychology, helping sick people stay kinky, foot fetishism, and how she roleplays being a shamanistic spiritual f*ckboy.

“Move at the pace of your regulated nervous system”

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VIDEO: Sunday Service 8.2022 w/ Kate West, Fae Black, Nicco Noire, Trinity Rose & Genevieve Brown

https://youtu.be/2ZKVauZIpj4

IMPORTANT NOTE: Nicholas Tanek & Your Kinky Friends does not endorse or promote KINK SHAMING*. Sunday Service is meant to be fun documentation of the lives of kinky people hanging out.  Trigger warning: This includes some hardcore opinions and discussions of NSFW topics. Basically, it’s a bunch of beautiful sadistic women talking about kink. Go forth and be kinky!

(*Sunday Service? I don’t know about you, but I felt shame when I went to church.)

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VIDEO: LIVE from MISCHIEF MANOR w/ Mistress Schari & Nicholas Tanek

Mischief Manor is a brand new dungeon / exclusive club in New Jersey that is owned and operated by Mischief Schari (Mischief Matters).  Shari, Catnip, and I discuss moving/building the dungeon, the New Jersey BDSM kink scene, the future plans for Mischief Manor, and more. She takes us on a tour, shows us the high heels she’s wearing, and puts Nicholas Tanek in stocks!

NOTE: There are some sound problems, but they get better and the tour is wonderful!

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LIVE VIDEO: Sunday Service 7.2022 w/ Kate West & Nicholas Tanek.

“Hot nuns being bad is always fun.”

Join the congregation with Mistress Kate West & Nicholas Tanek as they discuss weird religious role play, sexy nuns, medical play, using BDSM to find healing through the grief process, using an electrical outlet for CBT, humiliation, and the story of Evil Tits Bobby.

“I’m gonna kick you in the balls… it’s gonna hurt.”

https://youtu.be/5HL5uxuCqZ4

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VIDEO CHAT: Sera Miles Pt. II (PEP/BECS) – 7.2022

Poetry, Power, & P*ssy”

The legendary Sera Miles sits down with Nicholas Tanek to talk about phone sex, PepLove, Becoming: Education, Connection, & Support (BECS), the power of a sexy voice, castration fetish, helping people with disabilities, sex work, LBGTQ rights, stomping balls, feminization, and the power of kinky friendships.

No one in the world owes an apology for being who they are.”

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VIDEO CHAT: Miss Kaz B w/ Nicholas Tanek

If there are some balls, I will kick them… consensually.”

Miss Kaz B is a legendary U.K. Dominatrix, author, and founder of The Glamourazzis. We discuss her books, feminization, being a dominatrix, The Glamourazzis awards, The United Kingdom, pegging, sissification, chastity, CBT, golden showers, roleplay, and glory hole ballbusting.

Once a guy is in chastity, that’s going to prolong the experience.”

 

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VIDEO CHAT: Mistress Schari (Mischief Matters) w/ Nicholas Tanek

“I swear I have carpal tunnel syndrome from spanking people.”

Mistress Schari (The Accidental Domme) is a BDSM/kink educator, dominatrix, and host of the Mischief Matters Radio Podcast. We discuss classes for couples, make-up, lingerie, femdom, crossdressing, sex toys, feet, CBT, spanking, and the kinky side of Star Wars and Star Trek.

 

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VIDEO CHAT: Mistress Noir w/ Nicholas Tanek

I’ll shove my foot down your mouth.”

Mistress Noir is a Dominatrix from Arizona and host of Salacious Dommeversations YouTube channel / Podcast. We discuss the medical fetish, Stand up comedy, genital torture (CBT / Ballbusting), feet, sounding, humiliation, crossdressing, pegging, Femdom on a budget, spanking, chastity, and making men jerk off with jalapeno peppers.

I’ve injected Everclear into nuts.”

 

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VIDEO CHAT: SamHel Of A Baroque House – 3.2022

The violence on screen is not real but the sex is real.”

SamHel is the creator, director, editor, and distributor of A Baroque House, home of XXX horror movies.  We discuss horror films, violence, funding, remakes, reboots, knife play, blood play, violent fetishes, Troma Films, dominant females, and how SEX seems more taboo than graphic violence.

 

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VIDEO CHAT: Miss Kim Rub – 2.2022

!!! NEW !!!

“I like to cover everything you may need to know moving forward on your BDSM journey.”

Miss Kim Rub is back! She answers many questions from fans. We discuss her workshops, roleplay, art, BDSM contracts, safe cunnilingus, the U.K., her many upcoming events, electro play, her friendship with Mistress Tess, and teaching how to Domme at home.

“I love to see those lines lined up on a bottom.”

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