Tag: new jersey

YKF GROWL: Briska (NJ Rope Legend/Educator)

“Power exchange is how I express my love for people.”

Briska is a legendary New Jersey rope educator and performer in the BDSM scene. She founded The Moth House, a small leather house dedicated to queer joy, community, and education. In this discussion, we explore her past experience modeling for major kink sites, including Hard Tied, Infernal Restraints, and Kink.com. She retired from modeling around 2010 to focus on tying others, creating dynamic scenes, teaching, and deepening her own rope and power exchange practices.

“Rope is an extension of myself.”

 

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YKF GROWL: Mistress Schari of Mischief Manor / Mischief Matters

“We’re the top of the food chain.”

Mischief Schari (Mischief Matters/Mischief Manor) joins The Lady Lioness & Nicholas Tanek on YKF The Growl. We discuss running New Jersey’s coolest BDSM dungeon, having two lifestyle subs, being the hub of Nicholas Tanek’s whimsical creativity, LGBTQIA+ inclusivity, musicals, Princess Leia, Wonder Woman, and a 5-9 person orgy on the dungeon floor.

“You are the longest relationship you will ever have.”

 

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THE GROWL: Nicco Noire

“My closet is dark.”

The Lady Lioness and Nicco Noire unpack the elegant world of Femdom tea parties—from protocol training, silent service in bow ties, tiered serving trays and scones, to consent, and a perfectly timed naughty stick moment. We discuss the Goddess House NJ Tea Party, ClubFEMNJ events, cannabis and consent, and how Nicco Noire maintains her magnificence.

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TheLadyLioness – 12.2025

“I’m taking the bitch out of Femdom.”

TheLadyLioness is the Web Mistress and co-leader of ClubFEMNJ, a private international social organization for female-led relationships (FLR) in the BDSM community. We discuss New Jersey kink events, SPANKSGIVING, Goddess House, leather family dynamics, the allure of Oud Gourmand scents, “dungeon disease,” and embracing her Mommy Domme identity.

“The time you realize you are in trouble, you are too close.”

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Lady Masochist (aka Madame Sadist) – 9.2025

“Another fun thing to do with the balls is…”

Lady Masochist (aka Madame Sadist) & Brianhot are a lifestyle sadiomasochist switch couple who show YKF their various toys for CBT, nipple torture, ball crushing, knife play, flogging, whipping, and more. Madame Sadist tells her tale of finding her partner in love and pain.

“It felt like being f*cked from the inside.”

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YKF WEEKENDS – “De-Escalation In The Dungeon” (w/ catnip_boi, Miztress Claudia, & Anna Valentina)

“It’s a sensitive area.”

Issues with your BDSM dungeon? We can help! catnip_boi serves Mistress Schari at Mischief Manor. They educate YKF on how to de-escalate situations in BDSM dungeons and kink spaces. Miztress Claudia & Anna Valentina join us.

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Sammi Smith – 4.2025

“I am a sexual demon.”

Sammi Smith (pka Sammi Slammy) is a transgender Dominatrix who is also a voracious whore of a porn star. We talk about the complete feminization and transformation of her submissive, Chelly.  We discuss fvcking machines, sissy hypno, sissy porn, chastity devices, BBL makes ass sex better, and how to properly choke a sissy.

“I’m really good at choking people.”

 

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Ami Mercury – 7.2024 w/ Nicholas Tanek

“I’ve turned people into werewolves.”

Ami Mercury returns to be interviewed while she transforms into Mojo Jojo. We talk about transformation in kink, her graphic novel, ORC GIRL, cosplay, PepLove phone sex, Fetishcon, Sex Pollen, ABDL roleplay that leads her into being a nurturing Mommy Domme.

“The orc lives in me… no matter what.”

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Mischief Manor: Real Random Quotes

Conversations with kinky people inspire us. Since the opening night in 2022, I began collecting real random quotes that I overhear in passing while at Mischief Manor, my local BDSM kink dungeon run by the legendary Mistress Schari.  The rule of the game is that people must consent to contribute these quotes. Second, they are actual quotes that must be random, but in passing. The third rule is never to attribute a quote to a person. Part of the fun is remembering who said it (or who you think would have said it).

“I want weird people to meet other weird people.”

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